mridul_chajilee Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Its not my story. Its my room mate story.My room mate loved a girl for 4 month and after that he proposed her for marry,then her girl friend told him that she could not say about this coz she is adopting in her uncle's house and this decession will give by her uncle and aunty.As she lost her mom in childhood and from that day her uncle family is look after her and so she is always gratefull to them,if they agree then she would marry with him.But finally her uncle was not agree with this relation as they are from a rich family and they have different caste which is not match with my room mate.And finally my room mate moved on and before 1 month ago he got a proposal from his friend's home,his childhood friend want to give his sister to him and he also agreed.He went to his home and meet his friend's sister,she also liked my room mate and this matter was finally fix by both of the family members.NOW,After 3 months,my room mate's EX girl friend called him and repent her past neglect and said sorry and want him back.So,my friend is in confusion what he should done?please give some input.
AdamEE Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 It's hard for me to give advice as I am hurting myself, but I want to try. I believe that your roommate will have to decide for himself how much he cares about his ex. I mean, are the problems between their families still going to exist? Could they even have a relationship with that going on? Can he trust her not to suddenly decide once again that she doesn't want to be with him? There are a whole lot of IFs and BUTs, and honestly it's hard to tell. They might get back together and live happily ever after. Chances are, though, that the problems they had before will resurface and he may get hurt even worse the next time. I hope that helps in some way.
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