the wizard Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 I've been faced with a pretty tough choice to make. I'm a boyfriend of a lady who's everything I want in a woman. Happy! No more gripes! But..I have been given the opportunity to sleep with two very beautiful and bicurious women at the same time. It has always been my fantasy to do so, especially to receive a blowjob from them both at the same time. Ah! Forgive me for sounding like a pig but I'm so tempted. But then I think of my gf's smile when she sees me, when I hold her, etc. I don't want to betray her. Not sure which will be my choice. Right now my GF is out of town for a week. I know I can do it and get away with it. :/
Solo34 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Damn bro...very difficult question to answer. When you look at your GF, do you see the future?? If not, enjoy the fantasy. Just strap up so your girl doesn't reap any possible "benefits" from your adventure down the line... 1
Jadempk Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Just break up with her if you are going to do it, if she ever found out you betrayed her trust she would never feel the same for you again. Sure it sounds appealing, but once it's all over and you have "gone" I don't think you will feel better for it. You may feel empty, and if you cheat you will feel so guilty it will consume you. How would you feel if she had two guys going at her? 2
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Your girlfriend that you are insanely jealous over is out of town? I hope she is considering taking advantage of her vacation from you in exactly the same way. With guys who have 10X more going for them than you do. Have a blast. 2
FitChick Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Your relationship with your girlfriend will probably end soon, so just wait until then.
Thieves Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 The fact that you're even seriously considering it says something, I think. If you truly care about your girlfriend and sense that you have a good future with her, whilst the fantasty of having sex with two women may be very tempting, you'd eventually come to the realization that in the end, it probably isn't worth it. Take a moment, and think about this situation in-depth: You have a girlfriend whom you (seem to) adore, who is very compatible with you as a person, and whom I'm assuming cares very much about you and trusts you with her heart. Now, with the entire 'fantasy' situation coming into play, let's assume that you do end up taking that opportunity with the two women while your girlfriend is away. Let's say that you actually end up enjoying it, and that you have a good time. But then the real question comes in regards to after it happens. What happens after the fantasy ends? So again, let's say you do it, and that you also end up feeling guilty afterwards. Would you be able to handle that? Or even if you break up with your girlfriend before doing anything, after you have your fun, how do you think you'll feel? If things end with her over this, do you think you'll be able to find another girl who you'd be just as happy with? I'm not saying all of this to guilt you, but to really make you think. Living in the moment is all fun and good, but when it comes to relationships, you have to decide whether it's really worth losing a person you care a lot about.
Author the wizard Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 I've been thinking about it. The guilt is going to be the biggest thing for me if I do cheat. All of peers have seen the two women and told me "Hey you only live once, your relationship is still new don't pass up a once in a lifetime chance." They also have a good point. If I go through with it its obvious I intend for my GF to never find out. And when its all said and done I'll forget about those two and continue my awesome relationship with my GF. She does make me happy. The amount of effort she puts into the relationship, she cares alot. For that, I cannot let her go. It took me two years of searching to find her. :/
Solo34 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 I've been thinking about it. The guilt is going to be the biggest thing for me if I do cheat. All of peers have seen the two women and told me "Hey you only live once, your relationship is still new don't pass up a once in a lifetime chance." They also have a good point. If I go through with it its obvious I intend for my GF to never find out. And when its all said and done I'll forget about those two and continue my awesome relationship with my GF. She does make me happy. The amount of effort she puts into the relationship, she cares alot. For that, I cannot let her go. It took me two years of searching to find her. :/ Bro, there is NO WAY in Hell that you're just gonna move on after you smash those 2 other girls... If it's good, you'll want it again...and so will they. If it's bad, you still did it and will start to come undone and have immense guilt about what you did with your GF. In the long run, you're gonna be burnt by this cheating moment(s), regardless of if it's great, good, or bad. However, I still say go ahead and do it 'cause I would love to do 2 chicks at once...but I'm single.
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