Solo34 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Hello everyone, I am new to these Forums, and I have a question. I will make a very long story as short as possible... --- I had a thing for this girl at College...eventually got her number and asked her out (big accomplishment for me). We went out last Saturday. The date was amazing for the both of us...we spent over 12 hrs. together, and neither of us wanted it to end. It was an amazing and wonderful date. At the end of it, we ended up kissing and making out something serious, with her professing how horny I made her, how we had to stop because it was "too good," and how she wanted to "F" me, but we both agreed it wasn't going down like that on the 1st date. My reason being is because I actually like her, and she told me she likes me too, however she can't get serious because she'll be gone in under a year back to her home Country. OK, so the date ends, she tells me as I'm dropping her off that she has Tuesday and Thursday off, and that we'll see each other on the Shuttle (that brings us to our shared parking lot on campus) and all that. We don't share a class, so it's the only time we'd see each other. Well, come Tuesday morning, me and my bad luck, my phone falls off my bed and the screen breaks rendering the thing useless. I figure I'd ask her to hit the mall with me so I could get a new one because we both hate going to the mall, and I didn't know if she'd like to get out of the house seeing as she was free. The shuttle comes, I get on and as I'm driving off, she is coming out the building thus having to wait for the next shuttle. I decide since I didn't see her, I'd just wait in my car in the lot for her and see if she'd join me. I waited only about 5 mins for the other bus to drop her off...she walks directly up to my car (now parked next to hers), and seems very put off by it and distant to me. She told me she was busy with other plans and such, and I was just "OK...talk with U later" pretty much. So after I get the phone, I sent her a message apologizing how I knew she felt uncomfortable and if I came on too strong, that it wasn't my intention. I haven't made any attempts to contact as of that text on Tuesday, and I figure I'd let her contact me if she has any interest in me anymore or whatever. I haven't heard anything, thus why I'm thinking negatively. Do you guys/girls think I weirded her out/scared her off, or am I reading way too much into this?? Thank you.
crazylove Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 So after your date on Saturday, you didn't contact her until the Tuesday because of your broken phone right?....did you tell her about that, or did u just not see her until the Tuesday, because if that's the case, that could be the problem right there?
mortensorchid Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 No harm in trying to contact her again. If you like her that is. You didn't say if you told her about your broken phone which is why you were out of touch with her for those few days.
Author Solo34 Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 (edited) The phone broke on Tuesday morning, so I had it all Sunday and Monday. I did contact her just sending a single message Sunday and Monday. She replied on Sunday, and we both left it at that. Monday, no response, so I left it at that. I'm a guy that lets someone get back after I make an attempt. Having said that, I do like her, but I'll wait to see if she'll contact me. My only question is if I pushed her away/weirded her out by possibly coming on too strong with my actions on Tuesday, or am I thinking too much?? Edited April 22, 2012 by Solo34
Author Solo34 Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 So after your date on Saturday, you didn't contact her until the Tuesday because of your broken phone right?....did you tell her about that, or did u just not see her until the Tuesday, because if that's the case, that could be the problem right there? No harm in trying to contact her again. If you like her that is. You didn't say if you told her about your broken phone which is why you were out of touch with her for those few days. Hello everyone, I am new to these Forums, and I have a question. I will make a very long story as short as possible... --- I had a thing for this girl at College...eventually got her number and asked her out (big accomplishment for me). We went out last Saturday. The date was amazing for the both of us...we spent over 12 hrs. together, and neither of us wanted it to end. It was an amazing and wonderful date. At the end of it, we ended up kissing and making out something serious, with her professing how horny I made her, how we had to stop because it was "too good," and how she wanted to "F" me, but we both agreed it wasn't going down like that on the 1st date. My reason being is because I actually like her, and she told me she likes me too, however she can't get serious because she'll be gone in under a year back to her home Country. OK, so the date ends, she tells me as I'm dropping her off that she has Tuesday and Thursday off, and that we'll see each other on the Shuttle (that brings us to our shared parking lot on campus) and all that. We don't share a class, so it's the only time we'd see each other. Well, come Tuesday morning, me and my bad luck, my phone falls off my bed and the screen breaks rendering the thing useless. I figure I'd ask her to hit the mall with me so I could get a new one because we both hate going to the mall, and I didn't know if she'd like to get out of the house seeing as she was free. The shuttle comes, I get on and as I'm driving off, she is coming out the building thus having to wait for the next shuttle. I decide since I didn't see her, I'd just wait in my car in the lot for her and see if she'd join me. I waited only about 5 mins for the other bus to drop her off...she walks directly up to my car (now parked next to hers), and seems very put off by it and distant to me. She told me she was busy with other plans and such, and I was just "OK...talk with U later" pretty much. So after I get the phone, I sent her a message apologizing how I knew she felt uncomfortable and if I came on too strong, that it wasn't my intention. I haven't made any attempts to contact as of that text on Tuesday, and I figure I'd let her contact me if she has any interest in me anymore or whatever. I haven't heard anything, thus why I'm thinking negatively. Do you guys/girls think I weirded her out/scared her off, or am I reading way too much into this?? Thank you. 130+ Views, and I got only 2 responses?? Surely someone else has some input on this?? Thanks again!!
SJC2008 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Why would you set yourself up for potential heartbreak being that she's moving in less than a year? Mabye that's how she feels but doesn't know how to tell you.
Author Solo34 Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 Why would you set yourself up for potential heartbreak being that she's moving in less than a year? Mabye that's how she feels but doesn't know how to tell you. Because we already spoke about that during the many things we talked about during the date. That's not a question, the only thing is if I scared her off...but thanks for the response!!
yongyong Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 At the end of it, we ended up kissing and making out something serious, with her professing how horny I made her, how we had to stop because it was "too good," and how she wanted to "F" me, but we both agreed it wasn't going down like that on the 1st date. -------------------------------------------- I can't believe they are giving such dumb advies. It's not because of txting or waiting for her 5 minutes in the parking lot. you had a chance to fxuk this chick and you blew it in your hand. you gotta describe in detail though. maybe you guys were making out, she gave this common resistance not to appear as a wh ore(moving your hand, saying I can't)and you just gave up too soon? She even said 'I wanted to fxck you so bad' but you ignored the signal? I think, she is embarrassed because you didn't fxck her after she gave you that much hint. you are going to run into her anyways so stop txting for a week or so. Just say hi, how are you and very small chat. She might come along. When that happens, bang her! You should've looked at her as a dirty slut. (make out on first date and told you how she wanted to fxck you. Isn't it simple?) She said she couldn't get serious with you but she was making out with you. what does that mean? I heard a lot of guys saying 'I didn't push for sex and she doesn't talk to me anymore WTF??' 1
Author Solo34 Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 At the end of it, we ended up kissing and making out something serious, with her professing how horny I made her, how we had to stop because it was "too good," and how she wanted to "F" me, but we both agreed it wasn't going down like that on the 1st date. -------------------------------------------- I can't believe they are giving such dumb advies. It's not because of txting or waiting for her 5 minutes in the parking lot. you had a chance to fxuk this chick and you blew it in your hand. you gotta describe in detail though. maybe you guys were making out, she gave this common resistance not to appear as a wh ore(moving your hand, saying I can't)and you just gave up too soon? She even said 'I wanted to fxck you so bad' but you ignored the signal? I think, she is embarrassed because you didn't fxck her after she gave you that much hint. you are going to run into her anyways so stop txting for a week or so. Just say hi, how are you and very small chat. She might come along. When that happens, bang her! You should've looked at her as a dirty slut. (make out on first date and told you how she wanted to fxck you. Isn't it simple?) She said she couldn't get serious with you but she was making out with you. what does that mean? I heard a lot of guys saying 'I didn't push for sex and she doesn't talk to me anymore WTF??' Haha. Thanks for the response...I think you're right. She wanted it, and I definitely wouldn't mind giving it to her, but we both agreed it wasn't gonna happen on the 1st night. We had to stop kissing a few times 'cause sh*t was getting too hot, man. No lie, she told me it was "too good," and was pretty much hyperventilating when we took a break so she could catch her breath and settle down a bit. Yeah, maybe she felt a bit embarassed or rejected, but I even told her we could get a room and just continue it there (we were in a park late-night) without sex. She said basically "You really think we wouldn't f*ck tonight if we get a room? C'mon...:rolleyes:" and I says "Nah, I wouldn't let it happen..." We both said it's gonna happen in the future, but nothing planned, and it's gonna be natural. That's about as detailed as I can get without making a 10-page report on it, haha. Thanks for the response!!
yongyong Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 My friend, let me tell you this story. I have to share this to explain the logic of Sluts. I met this chick at a club. (white south african, nice accent) We made out inside the club (2nd floor, nobody was there) We bounced to the house party. I couldn't fxck her there because we were kissing in some guy's room and he walked in. There was my friend's house nearby. we walked over there. I borrowed my friend's bed. We got naked pretty soon. When the sex was about to happen, she said 'do you have a condom?' I didn't say anything because I didn't have it and gave her look. She got mad. she said 'now I want to **** but you don't have a condom??' I told her the grocery store is 2 minutes away. I can run and come back soon. She told me 'don't leave me here' I told her 'I will be back soon' and left. I literally did 100m at 3am in the morning to the store. I was walking back with a condom and my friend called me 'hey your chick just left, what happend?' I dropped the grocery bag in the bush. I ran towards the party house we were at. She was walking and ignoring me when I was calling her name. I stopped her. she looked at me with a poker face. I told her 'I am sorry if I disrespected you' I gave her a hug. I asked her to go back to my friend's house by saying I just want to be with her tonight. I even told her 'we don't have to have sex, we can just hold hands and sleep together hugging each other':lmao: She bought my B.S. You know what this dirty slut said????? 'Johnny!! look at me in the eye!! promise me, we won't fxck tonight!!' I said 'ok I promise' we were walking towards the house. I grabbed the grocery bag (condom) in the bush. she saw it but didn't say anything. We went to the bed. I was hugging her probably for 30 seconds. I started to kiss her and we got naked immediately I fxcked this bi tch like a mad man. her phone was ringing while I was banging her in a missionary style. 'I have to answer' I told her 'No I am about to come' I kept fxcking that slut. I came in her mouth and she told me it tasted good. she called me a machine. This is slut's logic. She said basically "You really think we wouldn't f*ck tonight if we get a room? C'mon...:rolleyes:" -------------------------------------------------------------- She wanted you to persuade her. If you promised her 'nope just kiss tonight. we will sleep together hugging each other', you could've isolated her and banged her. You know why? because you are the one who lied. So she doesn't have to feel like a slut ('oh this guy told me he would just kiss me, then he started to finger me and I got horny. I had to suck his dick and ask him to fxck me hard. He lied to me in the beginning. It' his fault') So you should've banged this chick and took all the blame. In slut's dictionary, there is no such word 'slut' Haha. Thanks for the response...I think you're right. She wanted it, and I definitely wouldn't mind giving it to her, but we both agreed it wasn't gonna happen on the 1st night. We had to stop kissing a few times 'cause sh*t was getting too hot, man. No lie, she told me it was "too good," and was pretty much hyperventilating when we took a break so she could catch her breath and settle down a bit. Yeah, maybe she felt a bit embarassed or rejected, but I even told her we could get a room and just continue it there (we were in a park late-night) without sex. She said basically "You really think we wouldn't f*ck tonight if we get a room? C'mon...:rolleyes:" and I says "Nah, I wouldn't let it happen..." We both said it's gonna happen in the future, but nothing planned, and it's gonna be natural. That's about as detailed as I can get without making a 10-page report on it, haha. Thanks for the response!! 1
Author Solo34 Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 My friend, let me tell you this story. I have to share this to explain the logic of Sluts. I met this chick at a club. (white south african, nice accent) We made out inside the club (2nd floor, nobody was there) We bounced to the house party. I couldn't fxck her there because we were kissing in some guy's room and he walked in. There was my friend's house nearby. we walked over there. I borrowed my friend's bed. We got naked pretty soon. When the sex was about to happen, she said 'do you have a condom?' I didn't say anything because I didn't have it and gave her look. She got mad. she said 'now I want to **** but you don't have a condom??' I told her the grocery store is 2 minutes away. I can run and come back soon. She told me 'don't leave me here' I told her 'I will be back soon' and left. I literally did 100m at 3am in the morning to the store. I was walking back with a condom and my friend called me 'hey your chick just left, what happend?' I dropped the grocery bag in the bush. I ran towards the party house we were at. She was walking and ignoring me when I was calling her name. I stopped her. she looked at me with a poker face. I told her 'I am sorry if I disrespected you' I gave her a hug. I asked her to go back to my friend's house by saying I just want to be with her tonight. I even told her 'we don't have to have sex, we can just hold hands and sleep together hugging each other':lmao: She bought my B.S. You know what this dirty slut said????? 'Johnny!! look at me in the eye!! promise me, we won't fxck tonight!!' I said 'ok I promise' we were walking towards the house. I grabbed the grocery bag (condom) in the bush. she saw it but didn't say anything. We went to the bed. I was hugging her probably for 30 seconds. I started to kiss her and we got naked immediately I fxcked this bi tch like a mad man. her phone was ringing while I was banging her in a missionary style. 'I have to answer' I told her 'No I am about to come' I kept fxcking that slut. I came in her mouth and she told me it tasted good. she called me a machine. This is slut's logic. She said basically "You really think we wouldn't f*ck tonight if we get a room? C'mon...:rolleyes:" -------------------------------------------------------------- She wanted you to persuade her. If you promised her 'nope just kiss tonight. we will sleep together hugging each other', you could've isolated her and banged her. You know why? because you are the one who lied. So she doesn't have to feel like a slut ('oh this guy told me he would just kiss me, then he started to finger me and I got horny. I had to suck his dick and ask him to fxck me hard. He lied to me in the beginning. It' his fault') So you should've banged this chick and took all the blame. In slut's dictionary, there is no such word 'slut' Dude, you are so on point...I'm laughing my ass off at your stories, though. OK, so how do I play this so that I'm able to smash this girl?? Or am I past the point of no redemption on my end???
yongyong Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Just leave her alone at the moment. when you talk to her, don't ask her out. Do you know her interests so you can make an excuse to make her come out to help you with something? not for hanging out?? maybe tell her 'I am going to recuse a puppy, do you like puppies?? come with me, help me pick one' Just check out some puppies and go to bar afterwards? (I came up with this BS in 10 seconds....this is just an example) Dude, you are so on point...I'm laughing my ass off at your stories, though. OK, so how do I play this so that I'm able to smash this girl?? Or am I past the point of no redemption on my end??? 1
Author Solo34 Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 Just leave her alone at the moment. when you talk to her, don't ask her out. Do you know her interests so you can make an excuse to make her come out to help you with something? not for hanging out?? maybe tell her 'I am going to recuse a puppy, do you like puppies?? come with me, help me pick one' Just check out some puppies and go to bar afterwards? (I came up with this BS in 10 seconds....this is just an example) OK, great. I got you...just small talk her, don't ask her out. Let her see that I don't give a sh*t, and let her get at me, right?? She does love animals...but I won't be adopting anything, haha. But I got what you're saying.
Author Solo34 Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 Bump now that forums are more active than when I originally posted this.
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