Dblock10 Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 (edited) hello again ls! well my ex and i split because she went to travel once completing uni that was 10 months ago now. she got back in touch towards the last few weeks of her travel and seemed interested to know about me and what my plans are and whats new etc asked if i was about, i wasn't, and consequently didn't meet her on that occasion. not sure what to do about this one, still think about her and even though i guess i did rebound a bit, i still have her on my mind.. yet the problem is, she is off back out to go work in one of the country's that she visited in july time and isn't sure how long for. so its like, i could take a gamble, see her out (there is an end of uni party) and she said she is going to it asked me to come and that it would be good to see me, but then feel like poop again after lol! far as i know she is still single and i am to. its like we broke up due to life circumstances so this is why its hard because we didn't stop liking one another (although clearly i liked her more). course id like to see her and i guess sometimes things don't work out, but everyones advice to get on with my life was right, and the fact she is back off out there shows even if i had stayed with her etc, it wouldn't have worked due to these kind of reasons. obviously i had hoped maybe it would be a bit different once she returned and maybe we could have re kindled something! but seems that that hope has now been crushed for me and its quite a strange feeling. Edited April 21, 2012 by Dblock10
broken-and-lost Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 I remember your earlier post m8 and how cut up you were and people telling you not to speak to the girl sounds like she is just going to take off again so what's the point in seeing her you already know it's going to hurt you if you do if you've manage to find some kind of balance ie not in lots of pain why upset that by going? Think about how you will feel she is going away it will be the same result as before regardless if your single or not but it's upto you
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