WordvAction Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 I finally thought I had moved on, but I guess I still haven't. One unrequited love, that is currently going to the same college as me, that I stopped talking to 8 months ago and cut off all contact; problem is, she likes to hang out with my friend group and I still see her all the time. There have been times in between these 8 months when I started to develop feelings for others that made me forget about her, but each time they end (they almost all feel like rebounds), I keep seeing her and the feelings never go away. To add to it, she'll occassionally text me about how she misses me and wants me back in her life again. Eight months and I'm still not over her, and I used to be the kid that could move on in a week.
Jadempk Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 There is a reason you feel the way you do so maybe try and figure it out? If you want and she wants to what is the problem?
Author WordvAction Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 Thank you for the responses, but she does not have feelings for me and if it was true love she would have left me for another guy a year ago. They're broken up by that's irrelevant; and i was best-friend zoned once before, I don't see why anything would change this time around. I dont mean to sound angry but I just hate still having her on my mind
Feelin Frisky Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Don't be so hard on yourself. We all suck in one way or another.
Mr Scorpio Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Don't be so hard on yourself. We all suck in one way or another. So true! Charles Barkley can't golf, the guy from Nickelback can't sing, and on and on it goes!
Author WordvAction Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 Yeah but those people suck because they lack the physical capacity to perform those said activities, I suck because after 8 months I haven't been able to get over this girl who said she had no feelings for me 8 months ago
Jadempk Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Oh I am sorry to hear. She seems like a bit of a player......maybe it's the fact that someone hurt you and you can't get over that? Do you usually do most of the breaking up and now for once you wanted it but the other didn't? Maybe look at the reasons why it usually is so easy for you to be over someone?
Author WordvAction Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 Nope, I've been left before, cheated on before, and none of it affected me like this has. My heart just won't let go of the idea of me being together with this girl no matter how much my head and actions try to convince it otherwise; hence why I suck
Tasion Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 i don't think she is a player as such but has her moments too where she questions her past actions and just sends you msgs to let you know how she is feeling. If you want her stop you might to speak to her and expian it puts your head in a spin when she sends them.
coltsfan1 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 i don't think she is a player as such but has her moments too where she questions her past actions and just sends you msgs to let you know how she is feeling. If you want her stop you might to speak to her and expian it puts your head in a spin when she sends them. I am partially for this advice, If you don't want those text messages anymore simply text/tell her this "WE/YOU had our/your chance and the moment is gone." I can all but guarantee you won't have to say it more than a few times. Her pride will be hurt if you tell her she had her chance and its over, so she will stop texting you for her own dignity. Either way it is a win win for you.
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Thank you for the responses, but she does not have feelings for me and if it was true love she would have left me for another guy a year ago. They're broken up by that's irrelevant; and i was best-friend zoned once before, I don't see why anything would change this time around. I dont mean to sound angry but I just hate still having her on my mind She texted you about how she wants you in her life again? How does she want you in her life? As just a friend?
Author WordvAction Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 Thanks for all of the responses. I'm guessing she wants me as just a friend, since that's all I ever was before. I don't see how me going No Contact for 8 months would change that. And thank you for the advice on the text messages, but it's more of a matter of me not being able to give up hope on the idea of me and her ending up together that is killing me on the inside
HollyBolly Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Having to see her all the time is what is holding you back from getting over her. Trust me. I know. I live right across the street from my ex. I don't think I can truly start to heal until I have moved. It sucks!
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