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Go buy Viagra, you won't regret it (not that I tried it myself, but I heard a lot from others who have).

 

Really, go give it a try, cause other than the face that it actually works, you will have the confidence cause you'll know you'll have an erection no matter what.

 

Oh and, it will probably last all night, so be well rested ;)

 

Funny thing is, i've actually considered that. Its just, i'd need to get prescribed and see a doctor and all that before i would even get it. I asked a few friends if they had a tablet or two i could have, but no luck so far. I was thinking if i could use it a few times and get past this weird anxiety i have, i could fix our sex life.

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Funny thing is, i've actually considered that. Its just, i'd need to get prescribed and see a doctor and all that before i would even get it. I asked a few friends if they had a tablet or two i could have, but no luck so far. I was thinking if i could use it a few times and get past this weird anxiety i have, i could fix our sex life.

 

Go for it man, it's well worth it, don't be shy cause you'll need to ask for a prescription, that's why the doctor is there to begin with - to help.

 

Both you and your GF need it, badly, so I suggest you get it as soon as possible before she's out of her period.

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Also... Art and dasein, where do you guys live that Valentines Day was 30 days or 5 weeks ago?! Where I live (earth) it was February 14th, which was over 2 months ago.

 

LOL touche.

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I'm afraid you will have to buy it... Because it is what SHE believes for HERSELF. It isn't necessarily truly for you or for a lot of other people, but for many, they will start a relationship with a lot of sex and then settle into what is more comfortable for them in the long term - and that can be once a month or once very six months.

 

I'm sorry, but you have to realize that you and your girlfriend might not be as compatible a couple as you would like if this is her general philosophy. Consider yourself lucky that you found out early in your relationship and not after a marriage.

I'm sorry, but she doesn't truly believe it. She might say it, but since their RS didn't start this way, I doubt it her way of thinking. I'm pretty sure she has just lost hope by now (not completely though) and thus trying to push aside her feelings regarding to sex.

He said she MB so the desire is still there. Can't blame her though, I had the exact thing happen to me when my ex' refused to satisfy me (we hadn't had sex, but she loved it when I went down on her and never returned a favor), so slowly I began to lose hope she ever will to the point I didn't get an erection from seeing her naked anymore.

Needless to say, I broke up with her soon after for that reason.

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Women are sexual creatures just as much as men are, if not more so. And they want to feel desired and satisfied.

 

I will have to (partly) disagree with you there. As much as I would consider myself a sexually healthy woman and want to feel desired, I think men on the whole are much more sexual and physical creatures!

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We have all had moments where our soldier wouldn't stand to attention. Most girls just pass it off and don't get upset.

 

For her to use this as some kind of stick to beat you with is bad news. If anything she should be trying to help the situation, not make it worse by rejecting you.

 

If you aren't getting as much intimacy as you want, you need to tell her. Don't be fobbed off. She has to engage in this discussion and both agree some kind of middle ground. To my mind anything less then at least once a week will never be enough for a relationship that's gotta chance. A minimum of between 2 to 5 times a week is probably about right.

 

Otherwise, you gotta sexless relationship and possible marriage, and then divorce to look forward to.

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LOL touche.

 

agreed.. my math was way off....hahaha

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I will have to (partly) disagree with you there. As much as I would consider myself a sexually healthy woman and want to feel desired, I think men on the whole are much more sexual and physical creatures!

 

I've always wanted sex more than the men I was with. Men have physical limitations for their orgasm, we don't and that's always an issue when it comes to sex. lol

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