FairyDust11 Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 I had sex with a guy a couple of nights after meeting him about two months ago. I didn't think it was going to lead anywhere so I kind of just shrugged it off and forgot about it. A few days later he text me asking how I was and all and we spoke a few times after that. I was beginning to like him at this stage as we actually started to get to know each other via text. We arranged to meet up again a couple of weeks later and he came over and we had sex again, I really liked it to be honest and began to fall for him a bit, but he left shortly after it was done and I didn't hear from him for over a month after. The other day he text me asking if it was me and explaining that he lost his phone and my number but found it again on an old phone. We were chatting for ages just about normal stuff and he asked me could he see me again, I said yes because I still like him but I'm wondering should I or not in case the same thing happens again. I was heartbroken the last time and couldn't face going through it again. What should I do?
firehawk_1 Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 well you should have known better! such things (FWB) never work and is completely silly and irresponsible. either be in a proper commited relationship or dont and if not then DO NOT have flings/one night stands. of course, that lifestyle is your choice but not many would appreciate that and doesnt do good for your image, personality and the future. if you like him, ask him about taking it further. but dont cause a scene if he says "no" because after all, you gave him the impression and told him it was FWB and nothing else.
oaks Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 This doesn't sound much like FWB. Sounds more like f.ck buddy. If you want more than sex then try meeting for a date somewhere that isn't your place or his place, but if you want sex then that's great, too!
Professor X Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 I was heartbroken the last time and couldn't face going through it again. What should I do? Bla bla. You already said yes, so you're gonna go through it again, good luck and have fun.
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