Hesham_3del Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 Hi, I used to talk about here about a girl which I had a crush on and I love her We had too much eye contact and she was concentrating with me while I was chatting with my friend and sat behind once in the class and asked me a question I was somehow seeing that she is attracted to me, and the problem is that I didn't have the push to talk her, but at last I talked. ------------------------------- She is with me in the Deutsche class and I'm making notes for our final exam, I asked my friend to introduce me to her I talked with her and she gave me her mobile number in case I need help with the notes. ----------------- After, I got her e-mail. I'm making the notes for the whole class and I'm going to share it, so I told them to show up a paper and to write their e-mails so that I share the notes with them. She was the 1st one to write her e-mail and wrote her name beside the e-mail although the e-mail contains her e-mail. ----------------- She was absent from the class the week before our last class, I told her if you want the notes now I can grab it, she told me yes please. The TA "Teacher Assistant" was checking them and told me 15 min. and you can get it, I called her and told her can you wait to get them, told me sorry, I leaving the college after 10 min. Are you coming on Saturday "today", I told her yes, then OK, I will call you to get them, OK,OK, bye, bye ------------------------------- 1) She didn't call ?!! 2) I have a feeling, I have the feeling that she doesn't want me now, was I too late as she waited for me too much ?! 3) What is my next move, shall I just sit and wait till I meet her or waiting for her call, shall I call her ?! 4) If you have anything you want to add, please add and help me out Thanks
insertnamehere Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 You're aware she may have just wanted someone to get notes from. Reflecting back on my college experience, if a girl in your class liked you it wasn't hard to figure out. I had a lot of game in study rooms and computer labs and it was never hard getting things to move forward if there was a spark there. From my experience, I think you completely misread a signal.
Author Hesham_3del Posted April 21, 2012 Author Posted April 21, 2012 Could you clarify more this please "You're aware she may have just wanted someone to get notes from." "From my experience, I think you completely misread a signal." What signal I misread ?!
jobaba Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 Hi, I used to talk about here about a girl which I had a crush on and I love her Wow. You have so far to go man. If only I could help you more. The only thing I can say is forget about that girl in your class and enlist a male friend/relative to help you with women.
insertnamehere Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 (edited) When I say you misread a signal, I mean I think you read something as a false positive. I mean, I was downright socially retarded in college and I got girls from almost anything study-related. In college, you get a lot of time to work a girl softly. No need for crazy approaches. So, if by the end of a semester you're still unclear, then frankly it wasn't there. One word of warning . . . if you're playing soft game in college, you need to be prepared for the roughness of the post-college world. There will come a point where if you want quality women, you're going to have to get good at approaching openly. Not trying to be a jerk, put college is pretty much the easiest place on earth to date girls. At most school, girls outnumber guys about 3-to-2. And, frankly, once you factor out guys who are committed and guys who are gay, those odds push to about 3-to-1. The odds don't get this good for you again until you get into your mid-30s (if you're single, no kids and have your **** together in your mid-30s, you're the male equivalent of a leggy blonde 20-year old woman with a rack). Edited April 22, 2012 by insertnamehere
Author Hesham_3del Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 What about this brother "You're aware she may have just wanted someone to get notes from." Pardon me, but I didn't get what you want to say ?! All I want is to marry the girl, no more, no less ! So, I'm so serious ! Edit :- What shall I do now ?!
jobaba Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 The odds don't get this good for you again until you get into your mid-30s (if you're single, no kids and have your **** together in your mid-30s, you're the male equivalent of a leggy blonde 20-year old woman with a rack). LOL! Please ELABORATE! PLEASE! :laugh:
Author Hesham_3del Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 Still waiting insertnamehere reply
inexperienced11 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Still waiting insertnamehere reply I think all that was being said is that the girl probably just wanted the notes from you and nothing else.
Author Hesham_3del Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 Why ?! Clarify more please !! Did you read my previous topic ?!
inexperienced11 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Why ?! Clarify more please !! Did you read my previous topic ?! I have not read any other topic from you, but her lack of interest just seems to suggest that all she was looking for was notes and that's all. However that isn't necessarily the case. I doubt I'm the person to advise you on how to proceed. (Moreso when you suggest marrying someone you've never even been on a date with.)
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