irc333 Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 Having to explain to your friends that see you with her that "you're just friends" Just kills me to tell them that sometimes.
gaius Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 I'm sure you'll have even more fun when one of them starts flirting with her, she starts ignoring you and they end up going out together. 1
Author irc333 Posted April 21, 2012 Author Posted April 21, 2012 I'm sure you'll have even more fun when one of them starts flirting with her, she starts ignoring you and they end up going out together. I might probably wind up forbidding it. lol j/k
NateC Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 I'm sure you'll have even more fun when one of them starts flirting with her, she starts ignoring you and they end up going out together. Oh yeah, that's...fun.
Comfortably Numb Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 Or......when she ends up having sex with your best friend, and tells you how great it was. And how she is head over heels for him. But your best friend just wanted sex and really treats her like dirt. Yeah....good times
Necromancer Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 I'm sure you'll have even more fun when one of them starts flirting with her, she starts ignoring you and they end up going out together. Hahahahha!
carhill Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 Historically, it's been being summarily disconnected and realizing the person never really was a friend anyway, with banging 'losers' they say they ostensibly 'hate' being a close second. I guess that's a clear understanding of what tampon behavior is, with the next step being avoiding it. So far, so good.
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 If a girl friendzones you just refuse to hang out with them. Don't return their phone calls, treat them coldly whenever you do see them, and just act like you don't care. Because you shouldn't. 1
Fondue Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 If you accept being friendzoned, then you have no right whatsoever to complain about what happens next. Any man with a sense of dignity will reject the FZ and leave it at that. Every woman that attempted the "I would prefer to be friends with you instead" crap, I tell them "no." And that's that. 2
oaks Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 Having to explain to your friends that see you with her that "you're just friends" Instead of "this is Sarah, we're just friends," how about "this is Sarah, we used to date."
USMCHokie Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 I'm struggling to understand why this would make you feel slighted...
NateC Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 friendzone isn't really being your friend. it's usually an excuse to never talk to you again or she wants to dump all of her problems on you, including complaining about your friend who she's now having sex with. The moment I hear complaints about the new boyfriend is when I back off...but I try to maintain at least a good friendship because having girl friends can be very helpful sometimes (like someone that can give advice, etc). That said, I know the other side - it's not pretty...
Author irc333 Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 If a girl friendzones you just refuse to hang out with them. Don't return their phone calls, treat them coldly whenever you do see them, and just act like you don't care. Because you shouldn't. Yeah, one of my female friends, who just started to date a guy....had been single for quite some time....and a couple of guy friends had been spending some time with her, I had seen said male friend on FB posting photos of them going to certain country side, small town tourist araes taking pics and such. There was a get together with a group of people to go camping this weekend....she RSVP'ed for it, and the said male friend dropped from the Meetup. She was also conversing with him on his FB wall, and she ended the conversation with, "Okay, I'll be seeing yout his weekend then." Referring to the camping trip. She was thinking that he might've \dropped out of it because ....now...that she has a boy friend, things would get awkward, because he was probably developing a crush on her....and now...that she's dating some cyber boyfriend she met online....and takes 4 to 5 hrs trips to see him on the weekends.....SHE has a theory he may be avoiding her....even it if means throwing the baby out with the bathwater to do so. Again, it was just her theory though.
joystickd Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Actually the worst thing about it is you put yourself in the friendzone. You could just walk away and not have anything else to do with her. Now you are basically a cuckold.
NateC Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 I wouldn't leave a friendzone. Well, it depends. Depending on the girl involved, I would accept the friendship or use this friendzone as a means to avoid further such. Life is about improvement, is it not? True. Not all decisions have to be girlfriend/not friend...I never understood that. Those girl friends may one day be good help in getting one!
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