Thieves Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 I somewhat agree with this. But I will say this, no amount of sexual partners a woman has had would ever be a "deal breaker" for me. However, being a "weird" 24 year old virgin myself, I would be very suspicious of any female virgin over the age of say 19 or 20. Because I'd have to wonder what was wrong. Because it's just not at all possible for a 19 or 20 year old girl to be a virgin in this day and age. Right?
samsungxoxo Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 I wonder how many partners the average woman has these days. I'm pretty sure it's much higher than it was 10 years ago.Age 25 and it's still at 1 but it's because I haven't met someone else yet. I've been single for a very long while now.
samsungxoxo Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 Because it's just not at all possible for a 19 or 20 year old girl to be a virgin in this day and age. Right?Lost it when I was 3 months shy of turning 20. It surprised my now ex that I made it through high school and the first two years of college still being a virgin. But yeah I heard some girl lost it way earlier during high school.
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 Age 25 and it's still at 1 but it's because I haven't met someone else yet. I've been single for a very long while now. As far as I'm concerned that's totally ok. You had a relationship it didn't work out but you're open to finding someone at some point. It's not like you have any major hang ups or anything.
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 21, 2012 Posted April 21, 2012 Because it's just not at all possible for a 19 or 20 year old girl to be a virgin in this day and age. Right? Sure it's possible, just not preferable. To me at least. Because the way I look at it, if she's an older virgin she's either a)waiting for marriage b) has major hang ups about sex or c) is in my position. A is not something I'm interested in, nor is B and C would just end up with the blind leading the blind. Not a pretty picture as far as I'm concerned.
ThaWholigan Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Sure it's possible, just not preferable. To me at least. Because the way I look at it, if she's an older virgin she's either a)waiting for marriage b) has major hang ups about sex or c) is in my position. A is not something I'm interested in, nor is B and C would just end up with the blind leading the blind. Not a pretty picture as far as I'm concerned. Personally I wouldn't care, as long as she is open to experimentation, as I am
Thieves Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Sure it's possible, just not preferable. To me at least. Because the way I look at it, if she's an older virgin she's either a)waiting for marriage b) has major hang ups about sex or c) is in my position. A is not something I'm interested in, nor is B and C would just end up with the blind leading the blind. Not a pretty picture as far as I'm concerned. Understandable. Looking back a long while ago, I know now that I could have easily ended up being one of those girls who was 19 or 20, and was still a virgin. Oddly enough though, it's not because I was waiting for marriage, or had any particular hang-ups about sex. I always saw sex in a good light, and had a good libido as any other teen. It was because I was just waiting for the right guy or girl who I felt alright losing my virginity to -- "right" meaning not necessarily "right for marriage", though. I just wanted it to be with someone I actually liked and connected with, and well, I didn't find that until 18. All I'm saying is that I would've been a little sad to know that if I waited a year or two more, that some people would've thought something was wrong just because I hadn't found 'that' person yet. That's just me, though.
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Understandable. Looking back a long while ago, I know now that I could have easily ended up being one of those girls who was 19 or 20, and was still a virgin. Oddly enough though, it's not because I was waiting for marriage, or had any particular hang-ups about sex. I always saw sex in a good light, and had a good libido as any other teen. It was because I was just waiting for the right guy or girl who I felt alright losing my virginity to -- "right" meaning not necessarily "right for marriage", though. I just wanted it to be with someone I actually liked and connected with, and well, I didn't find that until 18. All I'm saying is that I would've been a little sad to know that if I waited a year or two more, that some people would've thought something was wrong just because I hadn't found 'that' person yet. That's just me, though. Well, being a 24 year old virgin myself, I know there is probably something wrong with me. I don't want them basing all their future relationships off of their experience with me. If that makes any sense. At least with an experienced girl she'd be able write me off as some kind of weirdo.
samsungxoxo Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Well, being a 24 year old virgin myself, I know there is probably something wrong with me. I don't want them basing all their future relationships off of their experience with me. If that makes any sense. At least with an experienced girl she'd be able write me off as some kind of weirdo.I prefer that 100 over a guy who's been on the block. Talk about diseases I would then have to worry about catching from him. Men that sleep around turn me off.
dasein Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 "What number of sexual partners for a woman is a definate dating dealbreaker?" Any number that is not a natural number is a dealbreaker for me. If she's been with 14.5 men, -82 men, 7/8 of a man, for example, then I'm not interested. 5
daphne Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Reach for the stars, Daphne! You can do it if you set your mind to it!!! WE BELIEVE IN YOU!!! EW. I would prefer to remain std free, if at all possible.
matte123 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Number doesn't matter. Someone who is clean, std free, and have similar libido lvl would be perfect for me Well, being a 24 year old virgin myself, I know there is probably something wrong with me. I don't want them basing all their future relationships off of their experience with me. If that makes any sense. At least with an experienced girl she'd be able write me off as some kind of weirdo. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. I don't understand why some people feel so pressured to lose their virginity and see being a virgin at an older age as something bad. And are you talking about a girl comparing her future sexual experiences with the one she had with you? I think (based on reading comments from some girls online) that it's likely that all the men she has slept with will be compared with each other.
nessaaa Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 I don't care, as long as it was serious relationships they were in, if they are into ****ing randoms, they better not even look my way they will get rejected so fast. Guys with standards and morals FTW
lino Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 If she's my age (nearly 30), then more than 15-20 guys would turn me off. Yes, my number is lower than that so I'm not a hypocrite about this.
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