riggs Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 So I'm off this week with plenty of free time to do stuff like start Loveshack threads on the same topic. For the sake of brevity my dilemma involves a woman I see very briefly and sporadically. I'm on the reserved side, but I think she knows I'm interested. Based on what she has said, her voice inflections, and eye contact I know she is interested. The next time I see her it will have been at least a month. Anyway, how would everyone handle this? Of course I'm expecting/hoping she will be around when I ask for her number but you never know.
NateC Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 So I'm off this week with plenty of free time to do stuff like start Loveshack threads on the same topic. For the sake of brevity my dilemma involves a woman I see very briefly and sporadically. I'm on the reserved side, but I think she knows I'm interested. Based on what she has said, her voice inflections, and eye contact I know she is interested. The next time I see her it will have been at least a month. Anyway, how would everyone handle this? Of course I'm expecting/hoping she will be around when I ask for her number but you never know. Arrange to do something together and go from there. If the interest is mutual then the relationship will grow on its own.
Author riggs Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 Arrange to do something together and go from there. If the interest is mutual then the relationship will grow on its own. We have no rapport. I've seen her 6 or 7 times since January for 15-20 seconds each time. There is definitely mutual attraction. I'm afraid I'll hear "....sorry, but I met the man of my dreams this past weekend...."
NateC Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 We have no rapport. I've seen her 6 or 7 times since January for 15-20 seconds each time. There is definitely mutual attraction. I'm afraid I'll hear "....sorry, but I met the man of my dreams this past weekend...." Ask. It's better to ask and get rejected then to never ask and never know. It's advice I've been given and advice that I would give to others, because it works.
Author riggs Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 Ask. It's better to ask and get rejected then to never ask and never know. It's advice I've been given and advice that I would give to others, because it works. Oh, I'm going to. I want it to be casual and within the normal flow of things. It's driving me nuts because have no idea when I will see her again.
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