Mme. Chaucer Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 FYI, I wouldn't go to a sex toy party either, unless it was to support a close friend who was having it for a business venture or something like that. Not because I have any problem with them; I just don't think they're fun. I have no problem going to Good Vibrations and checking out toys if I feel like it. A long time ago, I had a job as a sales manager for a lingerie company. Some good clients were women who provided set-ups for these "passion parties." Truly, very much like tupperware parties. I went to some as a representative for our company to do trunk shows. In general, the parties were frequented by very average housewives. Not hot girls nor scary "Sex and the City" free spirits. In fact, there were parties in extremely Christian homes for ONLY married women. But … you should have seen some of the things for sale!!
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 well you are lucky I guess as over here in crappy UK, totally different story. im sure same with other places too. im so lonely. i wish someone would sell me a blow up doll. the most sex I will ever have Aw, lighten up. You don't need a blow up doll - though, if you really want one you shouldn't have any problem getting one. And it wouldn't cast aspersions on your moral character if you had one! I bet you will have dates with real live women in your near future. That's my prediction, and I'm a fake clairvoyant.
LoveAnimals Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Lol cant believe this was even an issue. There is nothing wrong with
anne1707 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 well you are lucky I guess as over here in crappy UK, totally different story. im sure same with other places too. im so lonely. i wish someone would sell me a blow up doll. the most sex I will ever have Disagree. Over here in the UK, sex toy parties are seen as a bit of a laugh. A harmless girls' night in (and to the benefit of their boyfriend or husband when they get home) 1
Author sid3 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 . But … you should have seen some of the things for sale!! Oh thanks, that's very reassuring!
firehawk_1 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Disagree. Over here in the UK, sex toy parties are seen as a bit of a laugh. A harmless girls' night in (and to the benefit of their boyfriend or husband when they get home) so you say....
firehawk_1 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Aw, lighten up. You don't need a blow up doll - though, if you really want one you shouldn't have any problem getting one. And it wouldn't cast aspersions on your moral character if you had one! I bet you will have dates with real live women in your near future. That's my prediction, and I'm a fake clairvoyant. LOL. trust me, no will do over here. *sigh* getting old. lonely. even more ugly looking....blah blah....
Babolat Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 My ex was not comfortable with her sexuality. It frustrated me to no end. I felt like a pervert in my marriage for even suggesting what is basic fun stuff to me. I have been dating for a while now and I am still surprsied to this day to hear a woman say she owns a vibrator. At the same time I am turned on that she is that comfortable with her sexuality. Though this lingering voice in the back of my heads tries to find something wrong with it, because I spent almost 14 years with a woman who was not comfortable with sex. My opinion, not a red flag, kind of a turn on.
findingnemo Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 In my country, a woman owning a sex toy is something she hides from the men. They react strangely. Almost as if it's a competition. Anyway, sex toys are sold not in sex parties but on an evening where a few close friends meet up for wine and dinner and someone is there to seek them the stuff. There's nothing wrong with it, with using them and a lot of men eventually warm up to including them in love making. So experiment... You might just discover some wonderfult things.
RedRobin Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 As long as the party doesn't involve live demonstrations, then I think you should be fine On the other hand, I know there are a few people on LS who would actually be into a live demonstration. Whatever floats your boat. What is your concern precisely?
Author sid3 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 What is your concern precisely? Initially I thought she might be a little too wild for me.
RedRobin Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Initially I thought she might be a little too wild for me. as long as you get to play with her AND the toys, then it's all good. FYI... I've always been monogamous... always been faithful... and a little toy action was nice to spice things up. Everything in moderation, as they say.
Author sid3 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 FYI... I've always been monogamous... always been faithful... and a little toy action was nice to spice things up. You should put that in your next OLD profile, I'd pick you for sure Hahaha, your such a tease!!!!!
manup Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 You should put that in your next OLD profile, I'd pick you for sure Hahaha, your such a tease!!!!! Use it as a green light to watch as much porn as you want.
RedRobin Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Use it as a green light to watch as much porn as you want. Hardly. I don't make a habit of using toys to replace my partner when I'm in a relationship. If the 'porn' were something we enjoyed together, then that might be ok. Personally, I found porn to be a bit of a distraction and distancing. I'd rather focus that energy on my partner than on a fantasy.
RedRobin Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 You should put that in your next OLD profile, I'd pick you for sure Hahaha, your such a tease!!!!! I know. I'm baaaad. But seriously, just wanted to reassure you that it (toys) can be part of a healthy relationship. Nothing to worry about unduly. If you felt it was done to excess...as in, they can't get off without a toy, or it becomes kind of a sex surrogate for her, that might be an issue. These are things you can discover in due time.
Author sid3 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 Yeah, my imagination started getting the better of me for a minute there. Guess it can't hurt to meet her and see what she's like before worrying about her toy choices.
JesseJames Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Ah ha ha ha ha. Okay. Too much groups **** for the women. Unless that was a full-fledged orgy, with butchie and josephine and the whole dyke gang and all, that's pretty freakin' lame.
g450 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 When you put it that way, no its not a red flag, its a big green one! Yeah no kidding. What a lucky guy the OP is and he is here worried about it? Seriously LOL? My XW went to one and brought me back a toy. Its mostly about girls having a good time like a tuperware party but more interesting.
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