sid3 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 A friend of mine is wanting to fix me up with a girl he's friends with. I've only seen her picture once and have only been told a little about her. One of those things being she had her GFs over to her condo for a sex toy party. I'm assuming it was more likely a girl's night in drinking wine and what not. Seeing that I've never attended a sex toy party, I have no idea what they really entail and if making a judgement about her for having one is unreasonable. Does it sound skanky? Maybe I sound like a prude. IDK.
Emilia Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 hahaha your imagination is running wild, isn't it? I assume sex toy parties are the same as tupperwear parties except for the product type. Ie someone comes around with a bunch of stuff they want to sell like lingerie, toys, etc and girls giggle a bit and buy a rabbit 2
Author sid3 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 hahaha your imagination is running wild, isn't it? I assume sex toy parties are the same as tupperwear parties except for the product type. Ie someone comes around with a bunch of stuff they want to sell like lingerie, toys, etc and girls giggle a bit and buy a rabbit Just a little Now I'm wondering what's a rabbit:confused:
Emilia Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Just a little Now I'm wondering what's a rabbit:confused: haha seriously? It's a type of vibrator that used to be fashionable (no idea if it still is). I think 'Sex and the City' girls popularised it
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 It's definitely an indicator that she is not opposed to masturbating or to being open about her sexuality. Is that a red flag to you? 1
darkmoon Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 (edited) just a laugh and a girls' night out, i hope you want to date such a funster or do you want a prude? some go frigid/selfish and you get a sexless self-righteous "no" with a prude, not lately, but there have been such marital hells as this on LS before now Edited April 20, 2012 by darkmoon 1
firehawk_1 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 if you are a decent person that does not want to be messed around... i'd suggest to move on im afraid.
Emilia Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 if you are a decent person that does not want to be messed around... i'd suggest to move on im afraid. why? aren't toys allowed? 3
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 if you are a decent person that does not want to be messed around... i'd suggest to move on im afraid. Are vibrators a form of unfaithfulness? Or does a sexual woman equal a cheater? Please explain. I'm confused. 2
Author sid3 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 haha seriously? It's a type of vibrator that used to be fashionable (no idea if it still is). I think 'Sex and the City' girls popularised it Yes seriously. I'm clueless about these things.I've never even seen one in person. Maybe I should watch a few episodes of Sex in the City so she doesn't think I live in a cave.
darkmoon Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Are vibrators a form of unfaithfulness? Or does a sexual woman equal a cheater? Please explain. I'm confused. they are called toys cuz they're about playing, some are nice some are not my cup of tea, but one thing is certain a vibrator never argues or comes home soaked in whiskey not like some men 1
Author sid3 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 It's definitely an indicator that she is not opposed to masturbating or to being open about her sexuality. Is that a red flag to you? When you put it that way, no its not a red flag, its a big green one! 3
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 All joking aside, participating in a sex toy party indicates nothing about a girl's morals or character other than she's probably comfortable with her own sexuality and doesn't find sexuality in general to be covert or shameful. If this attitude would make you uncomfortable, then maybe the sex toy party could be a red flag for you. Or, maybe a girl like this could open up whole new vistas for a guy who is uncomfortable about sexuality. 3
Author sid3 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 That's a good point M, my first reaction was to question her moral integrity. I'm glad I asked, I now see exactly what you are saying. 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 I'm still curious as to why firehawk_1 thinks that only an indecent person who wants to be cheated on would be fine with dating this girl. Because of a sex toy party. Please explain. 2
veggirl Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 No not a red flag! Hey, remember the guy who got invited to one of these parties and thought he was supposed to show up with his flesh light and condoms or whatever? :lmao::lmao::lmao: 3
Saxis Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 I think they're generally referred to as "Passion Parties"... If you end up dating her, this could be a good thing for you! It's not just vibrators and dildos. There's just as much stuff at those to try with a partner than by themselves, and most of the ladies that go to them are looking to spice things up with a partner. 1
Author sid3 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 No not a red flag! Hey, remember the guy who got invited to one of these parties and thought he was supposed to show up with his flesh light and condoms or whatever? :lmao::lmao::lmao: I don't even want to know what flesh light means, I'm sorry I Googled rabbit.
veggirl Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 I don't even want to know what flesh light means, I'm sorry I Googled rabbit. LOL yeah I had to google it when the guy had started that thread. Anyway I had a friend who hosted Passion Parties. They were really more annoying than anything, expensive stuff and a pushy sales lady
Forever Learning Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 I don't even want to know what flesh light means, I'm sorry I Googled rabbit. Stop the presses, this might be a red flag for you after all, if you pick the yucky face icon after seeing a rabbit vibrator. They are as cute as vibrators get my friend. I'd hate to see your level of disenchantment with a 10 inch black penis shaped dildo. 5
Ursa Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 These are just a slightly more interesting modern version of the bygone Tupperware or candle parties. In many areas of the country, there are no woman-friendly sex shops, so women who feel uncomfortable browsing in male-oriented porn shops--yet are also wary of buying sex toys over the internet, without being able to test the speed of vibration of whatever (on her hand, on her hand)--go to these Passion Parties. They drink a couple glasses of wine, look at some vibrators, and gossip a little bit about their love lives, in the privacy of somebody's home where nobody is leering at them and they don't have to feel embarrassed. It only suggests that she is comfortable with her sexuality--as others have pointed out, that's a good thing. 1
Author sid3 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 I'd hate to see your level of disenchantment with a 10 inch black penis shaped dildo. That all depends where one is encountered, if its anywhere near my naked behind,then yes I'd be extremely disenchanted:mad:
firehawk_1 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 I'm still curious as to why firehawk_1 thinks that only an indecent person who wants to be cheated on would be fine with dating this girl. Because of a sex toy party. Please explain. no worries because these days, its always about bashing men and getting the hottest guy.... and all the sex toy parties. Then women always say that men think about nothing but sex.... and I just dont like it when things arent true or are hypocritical. thats all! also from experience, I knew someone who always did these sex toy parties and i just didnt like hearing it all the time. it didnt do her image any good either
Mme. Chaucer Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Where I come from, sex toy parties won't tarnish a woman's image. But if you are uncomfortable with the idea of a woman participating, I'm sure you can date those who would never.
firehawk_1 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Where I come from, sex toy parties won't tarnish a woman's image. But if you are uncomfortable with the idea of a woman participating, I'm sure you can date those who would never. well you are lucky I guess as over here in crappy UK, totally different story. im sure same with other places too. im so lonely. i wish someone would sell me a blow up doll. the most sex I will ever have
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