mattr89 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 So basically my ex and I have only been broken up for about 2 weeks but she still contacts me every once in awhile, to which i keep it short and tell her im busy with something or studying. I love her very much still. The LC has helped both of us see things more clearly. Just last night she called me when i was asleep and I answered not knowingly. She had had a few drinks in her, I could tell. She began telling me about her day and what she had been up to, which led to her telling me she saw me at Downtown Disney with a girl at a bar a few days ago. In all honesty I was never there and have been too busy to take out another girl. I explained to her that I never went their. But she was absolutely convinced that it was me. Right after she hung up out of anger that I wasnt telling her "the truth", she sends me a text saying "You obviously moved on, I will do the same as you." So my problem is, what do i do now?? I love this girl and things were actually going well, untill this.
Chi townD Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 If she was drinking that night, chances are her memory of the event is so fragmented she probably doesn't remember too much about doing that, or is embarassed to admit it. I would just ignore it and carry on. Downtown DIsney huh? Must be nice living near the Happiest place on Earth!
Author mattr89 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 well just to clarify, she didnt "see me" last night. She saw me another day supposedly, but last night she said she just had the courage to confront me about it. Hah yes it is nice living close nice places like that I got some insight from a friend and It makes a lot of sense now. I think a friend told her they saw me. Cause I know her too well and she would have walked right up to me if she was actually there and saw me. So shes just blowing steem but either way, i dont like the fact that she thinks Im lying to her
Chi townD Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 And it's not fair for her to vent at you. You're not together anymore. Not your problem, she can vent to someone else.
flitzanu Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 meh, don't waste the effort, brother, if she's convinced it was you, she isn't going to listen to you anyway. usually the more you try to convince her, the more she will think you're lying.
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