john 07 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 So I dated my ex gf for about a year and half. We had a good relationship but decided to call it quits two weeks ago due to the fact that she wants to start investing into marriage and I'm not ready. Also I may move back to my home country next yr so the future looked gloomy. After two weeks of no contact she calls and says she wants to get back cuz she realized how much she missed me. I do miss her and want to be with her but to me it seems like a means to an end. We can sweep the issue under the rug but I know it will come back someday. I also feel like I'm stealing her time of finding the one for herself. Am I suppose to get back in this relationship?? I guess I'm just looking for some guidance. I was doing well with coping and healing but now I feel like I'm back to the beginning. I feel like I will hurt her beyond belief if I say no....
Reddice Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 It seems to me that you have already made a choice. What kind of advice are you looking for?
Million.to.1 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Do you want a future with her or not? She is ready for marriage and your not. You feel like you are stealing her time. If you are just in it for the sake of it and you do not see her as the mother of your kids then stay away. You will hurt her ALOT more in the long run by using her to fill a void for a while.
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