conehead Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 My bf's friend (B) went on 4 dates with my good friend (A) then lost interest in her. Since then, I've seen him 3 times. (Details of that in this thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/320876-bfs-friend-dumped-my-good-friend.) The first time, he was standoffish and didn't talk much to me. The second time, he was kind of back to his normal self (jokingly mean to me to a somewhat ridiculous extent at times but at least he still talked to me). But the third time, he was MORE standoffish than ever before. Wouldn't look me in the eye and avoided me. If I asked him a question, he'd give one word answers and then look away. I see B AT LEAST once a week and my bf sees him at least twice a week...so he is definitely a big part of my bf's life. I fear that his standoffish attitude is causing problems...as I'm afraid B is saying negative things about me to my bf and even if thats not the case, I'm sure my bf can tell B doesn't like me for whatever reason and that can't be a good thing for our relationship. I completely dread hanging out when B is around us and it makes it hard for me to enjoy myself.
Author conehead Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 I haven't talked to my bf about this before but I think he can sense it. Not sure what to do. Should I tell my bf? Or will this just cause unnecessary drama and I should just keep it to myself.
darkmoon Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 you cannot serve two masters, nobody can, the freind and you are not a couple ask your boyfriend if his freind ever talks about you be aware he must have sex-life of his own (or ask why not?) as well as the usual bills, work-stuff, tedium...leave it all as neutral/no fuss
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