Randybrandt Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 I may not be flawless but I am learning. Recently my ex contacted me and yes I responded because I was treading some rough waters in my life so I broke contact. She also stopped by my work ( thankfully I was in the back she didn't see me) and asked my boss if I was there he covered for me and said I wasn't feeling well she stormed off and mumbled a curse word and said all I wanted was to see if he wanted coffee! Anyways.... I wanted to say merci to the members of LS for giving me advice on breadcrumbs and telling me about seasoned dumpees seeing it coming so thank you. Thankfully the crazy ex hasn't contacted me since her crazy visit to my work but I imagine give it weeks or a month she will be texting me but know that I know about breadcrumbs and the wonderful advice given to me on here I will ignore,ignore,ignore and eventually she will get the hint because after she has her precious boyfriend remember:laugh: I am realizing she doesn't want me as a chum ( I wouldn't want her as a chum) She wants me as a fall-back in case things do work out with her precious boyfriend. Many, Many Mercis! Randy
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 I may not be flawless but I am learning. Recently my ex contacted me and yes I responded because I was treading some rough waters in my life so I broke contact. She also stopped by my work ( thankfully I was in the back she didn't see me) and asked my boss if I was there he covered for me and said I wasn't feeling well she stormed off and mumbled a curse word and said all I wanted was to see if he wanted coffee! Anyways.... I wanted to say merci to the members of LS for giving me advice on breadcrumbs and telling me about seasoned dumpees seeing it coming so thank you. Thankfully the crazy ex hasn't contacted me since her crazy visit to my work but I imagine give it weeks or a month she will be texting me but know that I know about breadcrumbs and the wonderful advice given to me on here I will ignore,ignore,ignore and eventually she will get the hint because after she has her precious boyfriend remember:laugh: I am realizing she doesn't want me as a chum ( I wouldn't want her as a chum) She wants me as a fall-back in case things do work out with her precious boyfriend. Many, Many Mercis! Randy In the States we call it "chump"==she wants you for her chump, but you are too smart to fall for it:) And whatever you do...if she brings you coffee....don't drink it, just in case, LOL;) 2
Author Randybrandt Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 If she brings me coffee I'll ask my boss to say politely he doesn't want it thank you of course he could say a curse word but he has to be a professional however if he sees her on the streets he can say whatever he wants lol. I don't think she will be stopping by anytime soon after she stomped off acting like a child she might text like crazy but I am not texting her back I am not a chump as you people call it in the states:p
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