dsw31 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 (edited) So an acquaintence of mine commented today on how much weight I've lost. I replied,"well thanks but,it came out of a bad circumstance.I had a breakup". She then said,"that's about the only good thing about a breakup-losing weight." Then as I was leaving she said,"Don't worry.The next one is always better!" I know she meant well but, this got me thinking...will my ex boyfriend actually think his next girl is better than me?He always told me I was way better than his other exes. I may be delusional but,I've just been constantly thinking that, no matter how many new girls he has after me, he would always think I'm better.I keep hoping he'll come back to me.It's been a month and 1 day since our breakup & I am still just as devastated. So I guess my question is- Do they really find better? Or do they regret losing a great catch like me? (yes-I said it! I'm a great catch) Edited April 20, 2012 by dsw31
wilsonx Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Send me a pic and I will let you know if he will find better 4
water4150 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Well...my ex who was the dumper...didnt find better... She ended up chasing a guy that was engaged, no degree, guy talks behind his fiance back to other girls. Me, I'm in nursing school, I have set goals, I respect woman, I am loyal. My ex in high school ended up dating worse... Not always true. But for you...you will find better or should I say dumpers dont always find better... 1
Author dsw31 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 (edited) Send me a pic and I will let you know if he will find better Well let me rephrase that...I know I'm going to be better than any other girls he meets! I just want to know if he can overcome his stubborness & let me back into his heart again. Wilsonx - you send me 1 first... I want to see if I've over imagined your sexyness in my mind? Edited April 20, 2012 by dsw31
wilsonx Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Well let me rephrase that...I know I'm going to be better than any other girls he meets! Ah HAH, how long were you in a relationship for?
Author dsw31 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 Ah HAH, how long were you in a relationship for? 3 years...and I'm serious about what I said
wilsonx Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Listen murderer! I asked first... btw, theres only one reason why you would know he wont find any better, its because you also know you wont find any better. 1
Author dsw31 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 Listen murderer! I asked first... btw, theres only one reason why you would know he wont find any better, its because you also know you wont find any better. Lol! You like to use alot of that mirroring projecting. Typical
wilsonx Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Not projecting, making an observation. Just sit back get some microwave popcorn, send me some pictures of you and wait for him not to be crazy anymore.
Author dsw31 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 Not projecting, making an observation. Just sit back get some microwave popcorn, send me some pictures of you and wait for him not to be crazy anymore. I'm not an established member yet.You're just gonna have to wait for the picture.
wilsonx Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Oh I figured you had your own amateur webcam site that you starred in. My hopes and dreams are now shattered. 1
Author dsw31 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 Oh I figured you had your own amateur webcam site that you starred in. My hopes and dreams are now shattered. It won't be the last time I shatter your hopes & dreams. Come on keep messaging me so I can get established.
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 So an acquaintence of mine commented today on how much weight I've lost. I replied,"well thanks but,it came out of a bad circumstance.I had a breakup". She then said,"that's about the only good thing about a breakup-losing weight." Then as I was leaving she said,"Don't worry.The next one is always better!" I know she meant well but, this got me thinking...will my ex boyfriend actually think his next girl is better than me?He always told me I was way better than his other exes. I may be delusional but,I've just been constantly thinking that, no matter how many new girls he has after me, he would always think I'm better.I keep hoping he'll come back to me.It's been a month and 1 day since our breakup & I am still just as devastated. So I guess my question is- Do they really find better? Or do they regret losing a great catch like me? (yes-I said it! I'm a great catch) I remember being upset over this concerning my ex....I convinced myself that he DID find better. Extremely well-educated, successful veterinarian, has traveled the world, translates German, tall, thin, blonde hair,blue eyes...But a very sweet soul on here reeled me in and said "He didn't find better, just different"...He also said "you could drag a sock monkey all around the world and it's still a sock monkey", LOL:) I no longer worry about this silly stuff. If he's with someone new, SHE'S NOT YOU AND SHE'S NOT 'BETTER'. Understand? Just sharing what I had learned and it makes sense:) Also, she got the 'booby prize', LOL. All the icky things that bugged me *(and all his ex's) about him. SHE now has to contend with....I think, LOL. I've no idea what's happening, but everyone that knows him--and was mistreated by him said it will all unravel because of his behavior. Don't put your ex on a pedestal. He let you go...How great could he possibly be? 3
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Well let me rephrase that...I know I'm going to be better than any other girls he meets! I just want to know if he can overcome his stubborness & let me back into his heart again. Wilsonx - you send me 1 first... I want to see if I've over imagined your sexyness in my mind? How about you all send me your pics? LOL
M2155 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Maybe you should be thinking YOUR next boyfriend will be better 2
Author dsw31 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 B&B & M2155, Thanks for your kind words! What kills me is that I feel like I ruined our relationship. As my soon to be new man wilsonx said, I "emotionally murdered" him! I cheated first. That just kills my soul! My ex was amazing, in every way, before all the sh*t hit the fan. He's hotter than any guy I've ever layed eyes on, funny as hell, brilliant & an amazing lover.It's hard to imagine myself falling for another guy.
Author dsw31 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 What are you wearing? I pretty much look just like my avatar (except for the hair) devil horns & all.
wilsonx Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 I pretty much look just like my avatar (except for the hair) devil horns & all. So your saying your bald? 1
Author dsw31 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 So your saying your bald? Uh,no... I have curly hair. Enough about me though. What are you wearing?
wilsonx Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Purple thong, green kilt, wife beater, and snorkeling fins 2
Author dsw31 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 Purple thong, green kilt, wife beater, and snorkeling fins Purple & green work good together.What color is the wife beater?
callmegee Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 ROTFL :D:D:D:D Wilson + DSW .... you're both nuts!!! :D:D:D:D A toast to the new couple to be :p:p:p 1
wilsonx Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Hot pink wifebeater I have no intentions on being in a relationship with her, she's not my type, I figured I could use her until my emotional murderer comes back from lala land 1
Author dsw31 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 Hot pink wifebeater I have no intentions on being in a relationship with her, she's not my type, I figured I could use her until my emotional murderer comes back from lala land What??? I was just going to tell Callmegee, that I would send her a wedding invitation, & try my best to get her a visitation pass to the insane asylum to come visit us! 1
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