loveshymanc Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Hi all Id love to hear some opinions on some recent experiences. Im not great at spotting an interested girl. On top of that Ive had a lot of issues with crippling shyness in the past which I feel that Im starting to get a hold of. I dont drive and spend a lot of time on public transport and often see girls that I really like. Just before easter I spotted a girl who seemed to keep looking in my direction from the other end of the train. At the end of the journey I got off the train slowly so as to posdibly have the chance to see if she had been looking at me. Sure enough when we got level she seemed to be looking in my direction, so I smiled at her and said hi. She returned the smile and the hi before we had to go our separate ways. Given my previous confidence issues, to smile at a girl first is a huge step forward for me. Anyway I didnt see her again until yesterday. We ended up stood near each on the train and again I felt comfortable enough to smile at her. Again the smile was returned and she also seemed to smile to herself. After a while we both went to sit down but couldnt sit near each other. When it came to leaving the train she again seemed to be looking in my direction. I smiled and said hi again and both were returned. Amazingly for me I dont feel nervous aeound her and it makes my day when she smiles back. I do feel that I could approach her if this continued, but I do wonder is she interested or just being polite? Are girls selectuve at who they return smile too or do they return all smiles out of politeness? On top of that another girl I see often has caught my eye. We have glanced at each other ocassionally. Once when I thought she was looking at me it turned out she knew the bloke sat next to me!! I do find her attractive but never thought she had any interest until today. When I was stood near her, she seemed to be looking at the cover of the book I was readi g. When I glanced at her she seemed to look at me and then down to the floor when I met her gaze. She did this three ot four times within a minute or two. I didnt get the chance to smile at her but would do if the opportunity arose again to see where things went. I know that obviously I need to strike up a proper conversation with both but is it possible one or both are interested?
NateC Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Doesn't hurt to talk to either of them when you have a chance to. There's obviously some interest if the behavior is repeated!
Author loveshymanc Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 Thats true I guess. Thank you for the reply
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