dasein Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 There's a big difference between heavily populated municipal trails and backwoods hiking. Asking someone to go on a municipal trail would be the same as asking them to go to a park or botanical garden. Sure it's possible that girl has misperceptions about where they would be going, but OP doesn't mention any other than her desire to have a friend vet him. Another poster mentioned the possibility that she may want to meet him sooner and this is her way of setting that up. This sounds more likely to me upon reflection.
SJC2008 Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Tell her to bring her friend, mace and a rape whistle! 1
snug.bunny Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Most likely yeah, too much stranger danger. Wouldn't be a dealbreaker for me, just annoying. However, are you sure she isn't prepping for a possible threesome with you and her friend? Stranger things have happened and it is OLD after all. Could be your shot at a champion Penthouse Forum story "Trail of Pleasure" Hahaaaa.
johan Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Scheduled a first date with a woman for next weekend (not this coming weekend) as her best friend is coming into town. We are supposed to go hiking. Then I get an email from her today saying that her best friend wants to meet me to make sure that I am safe. (She prefaces and says that her best friend is a little over-protective). Hmmm..... This woman is 34 by the way, and doesn't *seem* to be a helpless waif.... The trail we are going on has lots of people too! She's probably just being ironic. And now you have a shot at a threesome. Write that back to her. "ha ha, I'm safe, I promise! Is your friend hot?"
ButterflyPrincess Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 That's kind of weird... I could maybe understand if she just wanted to chat with you before to get to know you (and even still it seems kind of odd to me), but to tag along on a first date? Seems controlling to me (unless maybe it's a cultural thing?), and it kind of makes me wonder whether this friend is even more controlling than that
g450 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Well it's up to you. I personally wouldn't bring along a friend or even suggest it. ****, if her friend has this much say now - can you imagine if you started dated? I agree. Seems she is a bit immature and needs hand holding. Although the hiking thing I can understand. This is why a first date should be coffee or lunch. I now wonder if her "friend" is a guy though. If so, I would completely cancel the date at that point. Also starting to wonder about the threesome thing. Or maybe the person you are going on a date with is not really her but her friend. Some women do some strange stuff on ODS. Just food for thought.
crazylove Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Yeah, i'd agree it's a little weird. Maybe it would be better to suggest to her to meet somewhere more public initially for the first date if she's worried about going hiking straight away. I'd be put off by a date wanting their 'mate' to vet me before going hiking, and a little offended, although I can also see the logic, but it's just not the done thing!
Tasion Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 might be a nervous thing. If she brings a friend to the next date, yeah a little weird.
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