I rejected a female on craiglist and now she flags any new ad I post so....

[PhillyDude]

A crime is a crime.

 

Why not just go on AFF and get laid for free without the "gifts" pretext?

 

Because the girls on AFF are "dirty and nasty". I want a sweet and normal girl who is interested in friendship and being spoiled on certain occcassions

[Mme. Chaucer]

I'm sorry, Philly Dude, but I really doubt that what you have on offer would qualify as "spoiling" anyone who was even marginally able to fend for herself.

 

You're not taking her shopping at Tiffany or whisking her off to the Virgin Islands for the weekend on your unemployment check, are you?

 

'Cause that would be spoiling.

[PhillyDude]

I'm sorry, Philly Dude, but I really doubt that what you have on offer would qualify as "spoiling" anyone who was even marginally able to fend for herself.

 

You're not taking her shopping at Tiffany or whisking her off to the Virgin Islands for the weekend on your unemployment check, are you?

 

'Cause that would be spoiling.

 

I;m a different type of spoiler, I like giving females things that they NEED

 

food

gas

bill assistance

affection...lol

[KathyM]

The women on CL who are asking for these so called "gifts" are actually prostitutes. Don't kid yourself. No sweet, innocent girls in that bunch. They expect cold hard cash as soon as you walk in that door. The "gifts" they talk about are only a phrase to avoid appearing as what they really are--a prostitute. And some of those asking for "gifts" may very well be cops. Don't kid yourself--it's cash for sex. Surely you could have some other option if you tried, instead of an illegal one that could get you into trouble.

[PhillyDude]

The women on CL who are asking for these so called "gifts" are actually prostitutes. Don't kid yourself. No sweet, innocent girls in that bunch. They expect cold hard cash as soon as you walk in that door. The "gifts" they talk about are only a phrase to avoid appearing as what they really are--a prostitute. And some of those asking for "gifts" may very well be cops. Don't kid yourself--it's cash for sex. Surely you could have some other option if you tried, instead of an illegal one that could get you into trouble.

 

They are not prostitues because I post the ads in the dating section,

[PhillyDude]

The women on CL who are asking for these so called "gifts" are actually prostitutes. Don't kid yourself. No sweet, innocent girls in that bunch. They expect cold hard cash as soon as you walk in that door. The "gifts" they talk about are only a phrase to avoid appearing as what they really are--a prostitute. And some of those asking for "gifts" may very well be cops. Don't kid yourself--it's cash for sex. Surely you could have some other option if you tried, instead of an illegal one that could get you into trouble.

 

Actually I ask if she has a PAYPAL account because it's a lot easier that way. It removes the "HOOKERISH LOOK" of the meet since no cash is exchanged

[snug.bunny]

The women on CL who are asking for these so called "gifts" are actually prostitutes.

 

Well, they could be women on welfare, who knows. I guess that's nice, the OP wanting to help out and all....

 

food

gas

bill assistance

 

Gee Willikers.

[PhillyDude]

Well, they could be women on welfare, who knows. I guess that's nice, the OP wanting to help out and all....

 

 

 

Gee Willikers.

 

I never met a woman who didn't mind having one of her bills REMOVED each month by a guy she likes-lol

[Mme. Chaucer]

So, how many bills for how many women are you paying each month right now??

[Star Gazer]

Actually I ask if she has a PAYPAL account because it's a lot easier that way. It removes the "HOOKERISH LOOK" of the meet since no cash is exchanged

 

Please tell me you're kidding.

[PhillyDude]

Please tell me you're kidding.

 

Nope, it's a lot easier for me to go on my laptop and log on to paypal and send them the money that way rather than taking out cash and making her feel like NEW HOOKER lol

[snug.bunny]

What happens if you wire these funds into their paypal account, and they don't show up... Do you file a claim with paypal?

[PhillyDude]

So, how many bills for how many women are you paying each month right now??

 

None right now because I haven't found that ONE girl who I want to spoil every month

[PhillyDude]

What happens if you wire these funds into their paypal account, and they don't show up... Do you file a claim with paypal?

 

You must think I'm retarded if I would send someone money before they get here-lol

 

Once she arrives and takes her coat I then go to my laptop and log on to paypal and ask her to give me her email and then I send the money

[Mme. Chaucer]

It cracks me up that you consider paying a bill or buying a tank of gas to be "spoiling."

 

Ladies, would any of you feel "spoiled" by a guy paying your power bill monthly?

 

That's a pretty low level & basic exchange of services.

 

To "spoil" someone you are going to need to be lavish and surprising.

[snug.bunny]

You must think I'm retarded if I would send someone money before they get here-lol

 

Once she arrives and takes her coat I then go to my laptop and log on to paypal and ask her to give me her email and then I send the money

 

I just snagged you! Aha!! You're lucky I am not the feds.

[PhillyDude]

It cracks me up that you consider paying a bill or buying a tank of gas to be "spoiling."

 

Ladies, would any of you feel "spoiled" by a guy paying your power bill monthly?

 

That's a pretty low level & basic exchange of services.

 

To "spoil" someone you are going to need to be lavish and surprising.

 

What you don't understand is if I buy her something she NEEDS, it creates wiggle room in her account to buy something she WANTS because of the bill removal. Understand what I;m trying to explain to you?

[Star Gazer]

So you're depositing money into their PayPal account in exchange for sex. Right?

[PhillyDude]

So you're depositing money into their PayPal account in exchange for sex. Right?

 

 

No, in exchange for conversation and relaxation and movie watching.

[Mme. Chaucer]

What you don't understand is if I buy her something she NEEDS, it creates wiggle room in her account to buy something she WANTS because of the bill removal. Understand what I;m trying to explain to you?

 

Um … of course I understand you. You're not "spoiling" a woman when you pay a bill for her in exchange for having her sit on your face and talk on the phone, is all I'm saying. Not any more than you are "spoiling" the guy who fixed your leaky sink for you when you paid him.

 

Do you understand what I'm trying to explain to you?

[Star Gazer]

No, in exchange for conversation and relaxation and movie watching.

 

Not "intimacy"? You said that earlier.

[PhillyDude]

Not "intimacy"? You said that earlier.

 

Yeah some making out but not sex

[PhillyDude]

Um … of course I understand you. You're not "spoiling" a woman when you pay a bill for her in exchange for having her sit on your face and talk on the phone, is all I'm saying. Not any more than you are "spoiling" the guy who fixed your leaky sink for you when you paid him.

 

Do you understand what I'm trying to explain to you?

 

Usually when they meet me the gift is not that important because of the attraction. Why else would someone drive from another state to only get $50?-lol This one girl lives 45 mins away and came all the way to my place for just $50? Basically I just reimbursed her for the gas she burned to get here.