fortyninethousand322 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 I watched "The Departed" last night (for the millionth time probably). And if you have the movie (or can watch it somehow) watch towards the beginning when Matt Damon's character meets the psychologist in the elevator and continue watching all the way through their dinner together. Notice the energy and cocky funny attitude displayed. Don't focus on the words so much as the general idea. That's really flirting in a nutshell. You mean ?
Author somedude81 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 You mean ? Ooooooohh, I like how he throws in "you insulted me, now you have to buy me dinner." That's interesting. And of course he completely believes what he is saying, though being an actor probably helps.
zengirl Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Hrmph. Reading through the Dust-related responses of the other women on this page alone, I guess that's pretty much proof of the 'one-size-doesn't-fit-all' mantra. I actually really agree with this. Honest to god, if I heard a guy say or do one of those Dust things IRL, it wouldn't matter how buff or hot or cute he was, I'd either burst out laughing or quickly back away towards the nearest security guard. No offense to Dust, he's a fun poster to read on an online forum, but those suggestions IRL would be creepy, period. I would never go out with someone like Dust (no offense to him -- just, we all have different types, etc) --- my point was more about being unapologetically yourself and putting yourself out there, which is something we can use a poster like him as an example of. Nobody is everyone's type, but you'll never find ANYONE who digs you if you don't put yourself out there for what you are. 1
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