sid3 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 either way I have to move on, it's true. You don't have to, you can stay miserable for even longer. It seems you know better than that though. It's tough, but the sooner you start the sooner you'll get through it. Easy for me to say, but its true. All that matters is what you tell yourself. Hopefully you won't hurt for too long.
Author Princess71 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 Of course. It's the toughest part of the decision to move on. It's allowed to hurt. It's tough, it's difficult, and I don't know if you ever smoked, but at first, it feels like quitting smoking. Your mind is going to try to trick you into finding reasons to get in touch with him. But eventually, you will realize that you feel better without him in your life. I've been there. Many of us have. I think it's tougher when this kind of stuff happens in a budding relationship, vs, when a relationship ends because it's run its course. There's a sense of injustice to the former, like you were never truly given a fair chance. And let's face it, you weren't. But you should never waste your time trying to convince someone to give you a chance. Kamile, you have hit it on the head!!! That's exactly how I feel, like I wasn't given a chance. At least if I was in a real relationship, there would be things I didn't like about him and our relationship. When you're in infatuation stage everything about him seems perfect so you end up believing you missed out on something really big. Had I gotten the chance to really be with him it's possible I would have ended up dumping HIM! But now i will never know.
Eternal Sunshine Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Having been through both, the pain of ending a real relationship hurts about million times more
Author Princess71 Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 Having been through both, the pain of ending a real relationship hurts about million times more Ohhh, sorry to hear that, sunshine. You must have been in agony. Having never had a bad breakup, I have nothing to compare this to but I can't imagine feeling worse than this about a guy. It's such a dark cloud over me.
Author Princess71 Posted April 21, 2012 Author Posted April 21, 2012 Well, I think I've learned my lesson. From now on I am only going to allow myself to fall for guys that show definite interest in me and I'm not letting my guard down until I'm sure that THEY are sure about me.
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