2 weeks with NC

[Chrisal23]

Hi everyone,

 

I'm new to this forum so Ithought maybe it would be a bad idea to get others opinions. Well me and my ex have been going out for 2 years on and off relationship kind of thing. I've been dating her since I was a senior in high school and she was a freshmen. Honestly I didn't have this in mind going out with someone younger than me but it happened. Well long story short we use to be fine until we broke up the first time about 1 year ago. She kept feeling down and telling me she needed a break and I was shocked to why. I didn't cheat on her or treated her bad so I couldn't find the reason. Well at that time I felt so lost and down and needed to talk with someone but didn't really want to tell my guy friends. So this girl whom was new to school started hanging out with our friends so I got to meet her. At that time se brome yo because she entes time. Thinking back she would get mad over little things almost as to have a reason to break up. Well anyways I talked to this new girl as I wanted advice. What she told me was that my ex was interested in someone else she just didn't want to tell me that. Me and my ex were on and off so eventually when I looked for her we got back together. So after we got together and she found out that I talked to this new girl she was really upset claiming that what I did was wrong bringing other people in our relationship , so she broke up with me. After that like 1 week later we made up. But 1 year later she confessed to me that the reason why she broke up with me cause she was curious with going out with another guy! This made me upset and she had the nerve to tell me things are different now , that she has her feelings straightened out about me now.

 

After that breakup things haven't been the same since she dosent trust me. Till this day I wonder if what I did was totally wrong . When she also

Went to eat with this guy while we were going out! She also has him as a friend in Facebook and claims the reason she still has him is cause she likes to have a lot of friends and that deleting him is wrong! So now we've been bad as you can see and I haven't been myself lately. I got accused frequently on cheating on her when I wasn't and that made me feel bad. So I know this is a long story but I want to hear someones honest opinion. This time she called me one day after we hung out claiming that I don't care about her anymore. It's been 2 weeks with no contact and I contacted her this morning unfortunately, but it wasn't much of a conversation. Someone please give me advice because I really could use it.

 

Thanks

[january2011]

My honest opinion, to put it very bluntly, is that she was a hypocrite and treating you unfairly. Unfortunately, the odds were stacked against you with this one.

 

Maintain NC. Delete and block on all media and platforms, including your mobile and FaceBook.