Mrs.Wells Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Someone please help! today my boyfriend of 3 months now called to say "i think we need a break". Me being the type of person i am i said okay bye im a very emotionally person but dont like to display my emotions that much but with my boyfriend ive felt very comfortable and now i dont know personally what i did wrong. im a very proud girl and ive been through a devasting break up and this is exactly what i didnt want to happen because he hasnt called and neither have i and i really do love him and he always tells me how much he cares and loves me but with this i just dont know because i put my self out there and now this is what i get. i dont want to be the type of girl who waits on hand and foot i just wont do it and im pretty sure hed feel the same if i did the same.i dont want to be selfish and make this about me but it takes two and i just dont understand the concept "TAKING A BREAK"!
HollyBolly Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Someone please help! today my boyfriend of 3 months now called to say "i think we need a break". Me being the type of person i am i said okay bye im a very emotionally person but dont like to display my emotions that much but with my boyfriend ive felt very comfortable and now i dont know personally what i did wrong. im a very proud girl and ive been through a devasting break up and this is exactly what i didnt want to happen because he hasnt called and neither have i and i really do love him and he always tells me how much he cares and loves me but with this i just dont know because i put my self out there and now this is what i get. i dont want to be the type of girl who waits on hand and foot i just wont do it and im pretty sure hed feel the same if i did the same.i dont want to be selfish and make this about me but it takes two and i just dont understand the concept "TAKING A BREAK"! Put your pride aside for a few minutes and talk to the guy. Tell him how you really feel. That is, if you really care about him...
Author Mrs.Wells Posted April 19, 2012 Author Posted April 19, 2012 i have put my pride aside ive changed for the better to be with him. so the taking a break thing is just confusing me
Frank13 Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 im a very emotionally person but dont like to display my emotions that much Would you want to be with someone who didn't show emotion? What good is someone loving you if they don't say or show it?
Chrisal23 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Personally I think you did nothing wrong. If he claims that he needs a break he should have a good explanation , and by that I mean family issues things like that. If he needs a break it could mean he wants his space or that he wants to try talking to someone else but just won't admit it to not hurt your feelings. I tell you this because I've been through the same to find out she was trying to be with someone else. Don't text or call him. He left you, so you move on and find someone who deserves you and can treat you right. It's hard but you can do it. You decide if he's worth it and if he is still do NC and if he really loves you he'll apologize and contact you otherwise he's playing games.
Chi townD Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 i dont want to be selfish and make this about me but it takes two and i just dont understand the concept "TAKING A BREAK"! Okay, I'm gonna pull the band-aid off quickly. taking a break= breaking up. Sorry, but the dude didn't have the balls to pull the trigger. 2
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Okay, I'm gonna pull the band-aid off quickly. taking a break= breaking up. Sorry, but the dude didn't have the balls to pull the trigger. And who 'needs a break' after only 3 months? 1
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