Wesker Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 A couple links if you want to know my backstory. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/coping/284031-7-years-down-drain-life-lesson http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/coping/290965-finally-got-news-ughhhhh So my ex after being with me for close to 8 years rushes in with this other knob, and marries him back in December. I was told by a few co-workers in January that they saw this knob's profile on a dating website looking for a relationship, blah blah blah. He also got canned from the same place I worked at too at the time. I decided to go see this for myself, but couldn't find his profile anywhere. Didn't really care at that point anyways. That is until a month ago when I was told that he's still been quite active on this dating site, since it tracks their last loggin time. All this while being married to my bitch ex for only a few months. My co-worker sent me the actual link this time, and sure enough, there he is; logged in only a couple days before. This is prolly immature, but I decided to 1up, and have some fun with this. I made a total bogus profile, complete with a picture of a hottie from a generic Google search. I put a brief description, and away it went. Of course I got a bunch of creepo guys messaging. But one of them was......yes you guessed it. The same knob who stole my ex away, and married her only a few months later. I couldn't believe it. Caught red handed. Not sure what kind of angle to play here, so I just replied back with a thanks, what do you do for a living, and such like that. He actually replies back with his life story basically. No mention of being married, yet he really likes my made up profile. The 2 co-workers I told about this think it's hilarious, and that I should play it out as far as I can. I might. The thing is, my ex also works at the same place as me. I see her a couple times a week walking by, but been total NC. There's no way she knows about his secret online life, since she gets jealous very easily. I doubt she'd even believe me, or anyone that may tell her anyway. I have to admit, this is something that I thought happens in the movies, or soap operas..ha I do have to wonder something though. Why would a guy who has his fancy Beamer, fancy house, etc rush to steal my ex, marry her, yet keep his profile active; let alone having it there all together? I already gave this marriage 2 years max, but seeing this, I may have to go 1 year now. Anyone else been in a similar situation?
smile4me Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 yo that is pretty funny. lol. yes play this whole thing out. but shouldnt you at least i guess tell your ex since hes doing her dirty? well i guess its not really your business anymore since it is your ex unless you still care about her. idk i just find it funny. lol
xpaperxcutx Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Copy and save his online profile and then back up all the conversation that goes on btween the both of you. If your ex ever do decide to breakup with the douche be certain you have evidence.
Author Wesker Posted April 19, 2012 Author Posted April 19, 2012 We're not even on speaking terms, and like I stated, she wouldn't believe me anyway. I do know that a few of her co-workers know about his online profile, so I guess it's only a matter of time before they tell her. Besides, I think it would be even sweeter for this to blow up by her coming home someday, and catching him in bed with one of his online floozies...ha
Chi townD Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Oh the possibilities are endless of what you could do with this information! 1
HollyBolly Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Yes, I have done this also...but it was actually with my ex from 10 years ago and not her current. It was fun. Actually gave me closure.
Author Wesker Posted April 28, 2012 Author Posted April 28, 2012 Thought I'd give a little update here. So I decided to play this out as much as I can. And just like any slimeball, he took the bait. Was even able to get his personal email address. I've tried a few subtle things to see if he can say's he's married or not. Didn't really bite on that bait, but definitely implied that he isn't involved with anyone either. (right). I'm kinda tempted to just print all the messages I've saved, and mail them to my ex's parents. Or, because my ex works at the same place as me, forward all the messages to all her co-workers( from a dummy computer of course), and see what happens there. One of my buddies told me I could make a book on this..ha
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