yongyong Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 I will be blunt here. If you are into romance novel, you shouldn't read this. Have you heard guys saying 'I could've fxcked her that night but I didn't. I never heard from her again' I got this girl's # from the club. I met her for first time last week. she bought me a drink. we clicked well and had good conversation whole time. there were many good signs: she giggled many times, looked at me with puppy eyes, said 'I don't know why but you make me smile, 'I will pay for the dinner if we go out' etc. She kind of gave a hint about wanting to go to my place. but I told her 'not tonight' (because she came with her friend, she had to work next day, I didn't expect to bang this chick on first day etc) Instead I kissed her and told her I am going to send her home. She seemed little bit irritated by my bossy comment since no guys would reject a hot girl like that. I suggested we should hangout next weekend but she told me she was hard to catch. (I knew she was saying that because I kind of hurt her ego) I invited her for casual coffee but she just told me 'I would let you know' I don't know if I should've brought this chick to my place and fxxed her. Guys, you could've bang her that night but you didn't since you weren't ready or you wanted to respect her. She disappears after that Did it happen to you? Girls, you liked the guy. you gave him some hints that you were DTF. He either didn't get your hints or he just didn't push as far as you wanted. Do you lose an attraction because of that? (I will be surprised if some girl tells me the truth since all girls would say 'well I am not a slut like that blah blah'. In girls' world, they don't have a word 'slut' as long as they are talking about themselves...
Beetleguise Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 My experiences, it intrigues them and then they pursue u 10x harder cos ur intriguing lol
Feelsgoodman Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Women generally think that sex should happen on their terms. If a guy wants sex and the girl wants to take it slow, it's perfectly fine according to most women. But when they get turned down for sex, they usually don't take it very well. 2
Author yongyong Posted April 19, 2012 Author Posted April 19, 2012 Sounds reasonable to me. I think It's like flaking on a date. A girl flakes on a date. You will be called a loser if you get mad about it. you should accept it and just hit her up again. A guy flakes on a date?? good luck if you can set up the date again.... I don't think it's over with her yet. she sent me txt right after we split that night and another txt next day. I am pretty sure she is just playing hard to get right now. I think I will let her buy me a dinner, bring her to my place and show her who the boss is.... Women generally think that sex should happen on their terms. If a guy wants sex and the girl wants to take it slow, it's perfectly fine according to most women. But when they get turned down for sex, they usually don't take it very well.
thatone Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 get over this 'coffee date' horsesh*t, please. whoever thought of it is an idiot and the millions apparently following his or her lead aren't making it more plausible.
SmileFace Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 I feel the same way when a guy tries to have sex with me the same night and i dont and then denies anything further when I try for a relationship . I am just like "well, I might as well have fxxked him"
Author yongyong Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 I was thinking too much about coffee date. I told her I would be there and she could join me. She told me she would let me know and I didn't hear from her. I didn't bother going there since she didn't txt me back. I talked her today and she said she went over there thinking I would be there. (she didn't have a phone) anyways we set up the date on this weekend. I think I will bring her to my place after the bar and see how it goes
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Yeah, you should have ****ed her. She was with her friend? You missed out on a chance for a 3some.
NateC Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Yeah, you should have ****ed her. She was with her friend? You missed out on a chance for a 3some. The potential for STDs is strong with this one...something tells me she's experienced with picking up guys at clubs. 1
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