How do i talk to a girl on facebook i like? - How do i know if shes interested?

[conorm]

So im a 17 year old guy, and theres this girl i quite like, We've met a few times but only at parties and just being out etc, never alone. She kissed me on the cheek at a recent party but i dont really know what that means (thats not the done thing / greeting where im from / with my age)

 

After the party spoke to her on facebook a couple of time but it was pretty easy but i had an excuse to start a conversation, by like making jokes about what happened at the party. Now i'm left high and dry and dont want to start a random chat as it's leading nowhere and may get awkward.

 

The last time i spoke to her she said 'Speak soon' and gave me an extra 'X' than she normally does.

 

I know it's not the done thing girls talking to boys first or whether she doesn't have the confidence.

 

How can i tell if she's genuinely interested in me, or just being polite? Or if theres any good conversation startes? Also, i know it wont be concrete, but what do you think, does she maybe like me?

 

Any advice is good advice, thanks for you time!

-Conor

[callmegee]

so this is a girl that you know in real life and already a facebook friend of yours. is that right?

 

well, if you know her in real life, why don't you just ask her out for a drink/movie sometime? why go back to FB when you can date her for real.

 

[conorm]

Yeah i know her reasonably well and have her as a friend on facebook!

 

im only 17, its not the done thing asking a girl out for a drink, when.. well, your not legally allowed to drink

 

I want to ask her somewhere, whats a good place? But i need to get to know her a little more and so were more so comfortable in each others presence

[callmegee]

I want to ask her somewhere, whats a good place? But i need to get to know her a little more and so were more so comfortable in each others presence

 

No need alcohol to be a cool date.

 

You know her fairly well to know what she likes to do - music/concerts, movies, other cool places like skating rink or maybe she likes the beach.

 

I hope you are talking to her in real life too and not just on FB. Just my opinion, but it would be nice if you called or ask in person when you've figured out the venue and activity.

 

I'd suggest that you don't ask for a date via FB or sms. Call or ask in person. Be personal. Be confident.

 

This thing about FB.... it's in full view of all hers and yours friends + family + maybe even your enemies.... think about that!

 

The worse case is that she'll say "no" or "some other time". Better in person or on the phone than online in FB in full view of EVERYBODY.

 

End of the day.... I can only offer my 2 cents. The rest is up to you.

 

All the best ConorM!