Chi townD Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 I was on my way to a meeting on the other side of the city. I knew that this meeting was going to be EXTREMELY boring is I pulled into a Starbuck's to get a Latte to get me through it. As I started to climb out of my car, guess who I saw leaving the Starbucks? You guessed it! My Ex from many, many years ago!!! I knew it was her because I had to do a double take and she knew it was me because she did a double take as well. Then, I was a little pissed. DAMMIT!!!! She still looked good.... For many years, one of the things I did to help me cope was to convinence myself that when she got older, she was gonna put on 300 pounds, zit faced, greasy hair and wearing a moo-moo. Wasn't the case. However, she just kepted on going and she climbed into her beat up VW Jeeta and I know she saw me in a nice suit climbing out of my Lexus! Hee....hee... Got a little revenge there. My question is, does anyone else envisioned their Ex's at 300lbs, zit faced and wearing a moo-moo? 2
SilverBlueAndGold Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 My question is, does anyone else envisioned their Ex's at 300lbs, zit faced and wearing a moo-moo? The ones I don't care about, sure I can admit to that. But the one(s) that I really do not have bad feelings for and honestly wish them a happy life? No. It would still hurt to see them, so I hope I never do. 3
Eddie Edirol Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 My ex didnt gain weight, but her face is aging horribly. I saw her wedding pictures, and she doesnt look good with or without makeup. And its only been 3 years. She is going to get MUCH worse. Makes me feel good. 1
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 I was on my way to a meeting on the other side of the city. I knew that this meeting was going to be EXTREMELY boring is I pulled into a Starbuck's to get a Latte to get me through it. As I started to climb out of my car, guess who I saw leaving the Starbucks? You guessed it! My Ex from many, many years ago!!! I knew it was her because I had to do a double take and she knew it was me because she did a double take as well. Then, I was a little pissed. DAMMIT!!!! She still looked good.... For many years, one of the things I did to help me cope was to convinence myself that when she got older, she was gonna put on 300 pounds, zit faced, greasy hair and wearing a moo-moo. Wasn't the case. However, she just kepted on going and she climbed into her beat up VW Jeeta and I know she saw me in a nice suit climbing out of my Lexus! Hee....hee... Got a little revenge there. My question is, does anyone else envisioned their Ex's at 300lbs, zit faced and wearing a moo-moo? ...My recent ex, LOL!!!!!! He IS over 300lbs. He put on a lot of weight since I saw him last over 18 months ago. His bosoms are bigger than mine, let's just say. and Muu muu? Of course...Part of me =====and many others have felt that he wants to be a woman, so this wouldn't surprise me in the least;) When I saw him with his new g/f in a photo, my heart sank for a few moments because she is attractive...then I looked at him and thought...Yikes. he looks....different. Compusive eater, very unhealthy and lazy. he used to get out of breath going up the stairs and would fall asleep all the time.
Mcnulty Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 Saw my ex today for the forst time in the 6 months we've been broke up. My heart totally jumped, she drove past me, don't think she saw me. She has a floppy fringe and her hair looks way too dark for her complexion. She had frizzy hair that was very grey...she died it,(Aged 38), oh her breath was starting to smell as some of her teeth are rotten...oh and she continuously used to get thrush and in turn i used to get it as well...though I always stated to her that it might not be her passing it to me...lets hope my ex friend is the one with an itchy bell end now!!! 1
LasVegasGuy Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 (edited) I made a thread about this years who but my Ex that brought me to loveshack was about 150lbs when we broke up, nice butt, thick thighs, and pretty face, everything a guy could want. 4 years later im shopping around Walmart and I see someone BIG calling my name, I don't recognize her first and it turns out to be my ex gf. And she approaches me, and I refused to talk to her. She was stuck up when all the guys started to notice how hot she was, and now she's back down to earth?? She sent me maybe 10 Facebook messages and then a few request and I refused to read, send, or accept any of them. Even attempted to get back with me, what was she smoking? So those guys got the Playboy Bunny you, and I get the worlds biggest loser you????? Edited April 18, 2012 by LasVegasGuy
g450 Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 (edited) Well lets see, Mine still drives the little red sports car I bought her five years ago. She did gain weight but so have I. She used to have beautiful curly black hair (she is a latina) but now she has dyed brown hair and she straightenes it almost every day per my Son. She also wears sunglasses all the time now which I think is strange. Ever since she schitcanned me she has a hard time looking me and most other people in the eye for some reason. But who really cares right? We are both getting older and it shows. Nothing for either of us to celebrate about at this stage in our lives. Edited April 18, 2012 by g450
Author Chi townD Posted April 18, 2012 Author Posted April 18, 2012 Yeah, well...the Ex did look a little older, but she still looked good...dammit. Don't get me wrong, I'm totally over her! And she'll never know that she is the reason on WHY I'm doing okay for myself. But, why couldn't she have had at least ONE zit and a humongous ass?
esteem-jam Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 @Chi townD - A Lexus vs a VW and suited... very slick, very slick indeed. Though I dont see that happening to me. She is embodiment of classy-ness, her family was always wealthy. I suspect one badass 4x4 is her fathers new car... she drives a car too, casual one, I think her dad got it for her. She has problems with skin sometimes, I think her hormones are spiking, to which I would want her to suggest estrogen-pills and something estrogen based like peppermint tea... but oh well... I had insane problems with acne for half of my life, so who should speak here? O.o But I am getting way better... skin wise and dress style-wise. I doubt I will let myself to have a beer belly ever... Seeing her recent photos... she bleached some hair strings... but she was always a hair experimentator. Too thin trimmed eyebrows is something I would have a problem with... but I cant tell her what to do. Overall, I dont think she will fall her high horse.
Author Chi townD Posted April 18, 2012 Author Posted April 18, 2012 Though I dont see that happening to me. No dude, that's the wrong attitude to have! See things happening for yourself, then do it! And do it hard! Believe me, dedication, motivation and determination and you can have it all! In college, I had my degree curriculum taped above my desk, and it felt good to check them off the list until I had only one class left on that list. Had a big party dedicated to scratching that last one off the list!! Then, I don't remember too much of the remaining evening. I did the same in grad school. So, hard work DOES pay off! Setting yourself up for a good life does take hard work, but you'll get your rewards in the end. Sometimes it doesn't take that much work, but still the effort needs to be there. A friend of mine has a kid that wants to be a chef. Going into a 1.5 year program. I got curious, looked up some salary projections. Some of the Casino's in my city are starting their Sous Chef's at 46,000!! Not bad for a year an a half's work. Young, single and pulling in 46k? Not bad at all!
coltsfan1 Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Not bad for a year an a half's work. Young, single and pulling in 46k? Not bad at all! This is me, just over 30, 2 yr degree, new house and working in IT for one of the best healthcare networks in the US. It took more work than I thought I had in me but well worth it. To answer the question at hand, I hope my ex does well. However I also hope to hear nothing about it. I wouldn't want anyone wishing hurt or bad luck upon me. I still think she is a gutless slag, though.
fucpcg Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 I love and care for my ex, regardless of her treatment toward me in the end. I wish her the best, and have always felt confident enough in myself to know how I do moving forward is all that matters, even if she does well without me. If she found someone better, then good for her.
HollyBolly Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 My ex will never get fat. It is just not going to happen. She is too angry to gain weight. Saw her a few times. She was just as skinny - which she always said she didn't want to be - and she looked good. I felt all right about that because I looked better. So, there!
HHC Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 I did, but it didn't happen................for many years. Now hes fat and I laugh
leoc1973 Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 My ex is dead!! At least to me! In seriousness tho. Since she dumped me she started working out a lot! She is so freaking hot it makes me sick. She was 165 lbs when we broke up now she's 125ish. I used to tell her that a tan was my absolute favorite thing on a woman and she told me she didn't wanna ruin her skin. I know its horrible for a person so I never pushed it and respected that she didn't wanna. Now she is as dark as a white person can be. She used to chop all her hair off and I would have prefered it long now its half way down her back. Teeth whitened always wears those sexy pantsuits. When she was with me it was old jeans and sweatpants. She went from a 7 to a 9. LOL I guess I was holding her back!! I'm happy for her though. I wouldn't want someone that I had loved to fall apart and hate themselves I want them to be happy. (cough,cough,vomit)
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