Senateguy Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 I feel like i'm a drug addict. Why do i have such a desire to talk to my ex? I'm having to really consciously force myself to not text her. It's been about 5 to 6 weeks since we last talked. She was horrible to me. Six weeks ago she once again confirmed that she is talking to this guy that she always denied to my face that she was interested in. I just can't get over how i'm having to force myself to not text her.... You would think i'd have no desire to contact her ever again after she was so awful to me, but I' have a huge desire to see her and sleep with her. This is awful.. The human mind is so wacked. You would think you would never want to talk to someone who is awful to you, but that's not the case.
SilverBlueAndGold Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 Go watch Star Wars again: there is no try! Do or do not. Or something .... 2
Philosoraptor Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 Most people want to feel validated by something that rejected them. Find validation within yourself and you desire to maintain contact will disappear. 1
Author Senateguy Posted April 18, 2012 Author Posted April 18, 2012 Most people want to feel validated by something that rejected them. Find validation within yourself and you desire to maintain contact will disappear. This sucks. I can't get over my desire to sleep with her....Trying to stay strong though.
dsw31 Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 Most people want to feel validated by something that rejected them. Find validation within yourself and you desire to maintain contact will disappear. Philosoraptor, you just gave some incredible advice to the op.It's just hard for me to take that advice, even though I know it's true.Talk me out of this.I'm contemplating sending my ex a picture of my ass & saying "You are out of your mind to have screwed this up"Tell me not to do it!!! I need you guys again.Having a weak moment!
dsw31 Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 Senateguy, You are not alone.I feel like a crackhead looking for my next rock when it comes to my ex.He treated me bad during the end of our rrelationship too.
Philosoraptor Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 Philosoraptor, you just gave some incredible advice to the op.It's just hard for me to take that advice, even though I know it's true.Talk me out of this.I'm contemplating sending my ex a picture of my ass & saying "You are out of your mind to have screwed this up"Tell me not to do it!!! I need you guys again.Having a weak moment! No amount of revenge is worth the shame you will feel in yourself after, nor the steps back it will take you.
Author Senateguy Posted April 18, 2012 Author Posted April 18, 2012 God...i'm so close to texting her. This SUCKS! I feel like a freaking drug addict.
dsw31 Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 No amount of revenge is worth the shame you will feel in yourself after, nor the steps back it will take you. Ok,that was good too but,it's not revenge.I want him to miss me.
HollyBolly Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 God...i'm so close to texting her. This SUCKS! I feel like a freaking drug addict. Take the battery out of your phone and throw it out.
dsw31 Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 God...i'm so close to texting her. This SUCKS! I feel like a freaking drug addict. Hey Senateguy, I'm sorry I don't have that much advice for you because, I'm feeling the same way as you are. I do know 1 thing is for sure. I've noticed the feeling does pass.Just try & ride it out.It will come back for sure but,if you hold off-it will pass.Don't do it!
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