mridul_chajilee Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 NC rule etc not working for me,ofcourse i don't have any contact of my EX.But i am so empty.I need her.Why she does not feel that i still need her,i still love her. Please any one help me.I love her.
kyle77 Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 sometimes no contact works sometimes it doesn't for a particular situation....how did you to break up? what was the reason she gave you....I say reason she gave you because its not always that reason. when my ex broke up with me she told me she didn't feel appreciated anymore which I'm sure is part of the reason but I am willing to bet there are other things she just didn't tell me....in my case no contact wouldn't have been the best option because she felt a lack of attention from me....like i didn't care so no contact kind of reinforces that i don't care about her....if you were being clingy or needy or having lots of fights no contact might be a good idea
Author mridul_chajilee Posted April 18, 2012 Author Posted April 18, 2012 Its been 3years of NC and no way to express you what to do,where should i go for peace of mind?After my break up,i asked my ex whether she will marry or not?Then she replied that if she really loved me then she will never marry and if she did not love me then she will marry.And now i am eligible for marriage as in my family only two members me and my mom,so many proposal are coming but i am still confuse what to do?If she never marry then it will be a curse for me whole life and i have no contact of her to clearify it.what to do?
kyle77 Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 its been three years!!!! WOW thats dedication man. Maybe the best thing for you to do is be yourself go out and have some fun and if it is meant to be she will come back. As for peace of mind some people really like meditation, I personally like to workout or go for a run. Usually most people are over their ex by three years. But if you still want her than who knows maybe it is meant to be. Just ask yourself this though....if you got in contact with your ex and she agreed to go on a few dates with you, would you be able to treat her the way you wanted to? You have to love yourself first before you can love her or else you will never be able to make her happy. Focus on becoming the person you truly want to be and then she may come back...
Author mridul_chajilee Posted April 18, 2012 Author Posted April 18, 2012 I am doning the same and also ihave left DRINKING and SMOKING for good which was she hate.
Nohbody Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 How long were you actually with this person? Have you been broken up longer than the relationship? Is the person you miss a real person, or someone in your head?
Author mridul_chajilee Posted April 18, 2012 Author Posted April 18, 2012 No that was my real girl friend that we were 11years together.
Author mridul_chajilee Posted April 18, 2012 Author Posted April 18, 2012 Its been 3years of Break up.
kyle77 Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 okay I think after eleven years of being together and now three years apart your going to have to accept that you will never lose your feelings for her. She was a very important person in your life. And there is nothing wrong with that. To be honest my best advice for you is to look into the law of attraction. It really helped me! It also makes it possible for you to get in the right mindset that could maybe bring her back one day. At its core the law of attraction basically says that everything that happens in your life you made happen. Now you have to take it with a grain of salt its not a perfect situation but none the less if you think about it that you just need to take the right steps in your life and then your ex will come right back to you because you made it happen...look it up online there are a lot better sources then what I just said...
Author mridul_chajilee Posted April 19, 2012 Author Posted April 19, 2012 @kyle77 bro,what is LAW OF ATTRACTION?And can you please give me a direct link to that law?
kyle77 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 I would advise looking into many resources cause the more information and knowledge you have about it the better you can make it work....it essentially just makes you realize you can control the outcome of your life...."your ex didn't break up with you...you made it possible for your ex to break up with you....which may not be a bad thing it may bring better things in life who knows... Law of Attraction: Step-by-Step
Author mridul_chajilee Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 Thank you..................
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