soju Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 I believe I could be a rebound, as when I started dating my ex she had just gotten out of a 1 year relationship. Our relationship lasted 2 years where we lived together for a year and a half of it. we had always talked about marriage and a family but near the end of our relationship I had bought her a ring which was a promise to marry her one day. I was stressed with work and school and didn't show her the appreciation she deserves towards the end and she saw this. One night she came home and said "I'm not waiting around for you anymore" and left. We have been broken up for about 4 months now, I was just wondering if there is a chance for reconciliation if you were a rebound. I know that right after her previous bu she had been seeing another guy before me which she had also slept with, but dropped him for me. I've been reading the boards alot and finally decided to ask for help, I know Wilson, and smokey would probably have some insight for me. Thanks for reading.
Philosoraptor Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 So you were with someone who rebounds due to the inability to be alone? This has them constantly running from pain rather than having the ability to learn, heal, and give a new partner 100%. 1
Author soju Posted April 18, 2012 Author Posted April 18, 2012 With that being said, will she ever get past it? we did love each other, I was her longest and she was mine. She instantly went on the typical gigs 180°.
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