sid3 Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 ... speaking of fanning the flames... MMM MMM MMM That's hot
RedRobin Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 That's hot You are such a big flirt! Stay on topic! You already got me 'flagged' for teasing you about your 'ass kissing vs cheesy PUA ways'. LOL. Anyway, OP. You see there are lots of opinions here. Part of what you are getting at falls into different dating styles for people. Some start with sex and find love. Others need 'love' and find sex. Since we aren't there and can't see the conversations, it is tough to sift out what this guys intentions might be. More questions and conversations might be in order. If all conversations lead to the sex topic though, then I'd say that would be your answer.
wwwjd Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 don't modern guys know how to start things smoldering without being direct?? there is so much to be had in quiet little things that don't even come off sexual on any level. maybe more sensuous rather than sexual. I really am on the wrong planet
veggirl Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 Starla, what did he say? Flirting is fine, sexual remarks are kinda bleh that early on for me. I mean "you look hot" or something might be okay with "omg I'd love to bang you" is not. You can portray your sexual attraction without being vulgar or acting too familiar with a person you barely know, and it's probably best done with touch. I remember my BF grazing my a$s on our 2nd date lol and that conveyed his sexual attraction, obviously because it was done on purpose.
sid3 Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 I remember my BF grazing my a$s on our 2nd date lol and that conveyed his sexual attraction, obviously because it was done on purpose. That is a great move.
updown Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 i've had it happen to me, and my reaction depended on how and what was said. overtly graphic and sexual was not as well received as a subtle and a simple declaration was.......... one guy it felt like he was interested in more than just sex. the other guy it felt like he was just looking to score. go with your gut!!! what does your guy say about these guys??
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