Shamrock13 Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 I just received some text messages tonight from a couple that my ex and I were friends with. They live down the street from my ex and their lil girl is best friends with my ex oldest girl. They havent contacted me since the day after my ex ended it and I told them what happened, so for 4 weeks now nothing till tonight. And they asked me about 2 things that recently happened to me(surgery) and work that they had to have gotten from my ex no way they found out any other way. So my confusion is why message me now, is there a motive from them or my ex. I kept my return texts to them positive and did not mention my ex or the break up at all. And told them about some good things happening right now. Any input and opinions would be appreciated, am so confused and its making me want to say something to them or contact my ex
blotter Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 So you are in contact with you ex already if she is feeding your mutual friend's recent info about you? Usually if an ex wants to get back together they will let you know without any confusion. Anything less than that is probably just bread crumbs.
Author Shamrock13 Posted April 18, 2012 Author Posted April 18, 2012 Hi Blotter No I havent been in contact with my ex since she ended it. My ex knew about the 2 things going on with me via her work. Someone else here told me on another thread that they may try and check up and get info and get back in through friends and family. Was wanting to see if this was the case or if anyone else here has experienced this. Pardon my ignorance what are bread crumbs
Philosoraptor Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 Maybe they were just concerned for you since you were friends before the breakup? Maybe they just wanted to give you time and not get inbetween the two of you? I'd write this one off and see what happens in the future. It sounds like you handled yourself well though.
Author Shamrock13 Posted April 18, 2012 Author Posted April 18, 2012 Thanks Philosoraptor Just responded to you on my other thread and asked if you could look at this update
Chi townD Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 Yeah, I wouldn't read too much into it. If you were friends before the break up; chances are they heard about you two and are trying to show support. Trying to show you that they're not taking sides and still consider you a friend.
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