what do i do :(

[flowergirl2]

I was with this guy for a year and a half. very intense relationship had very strong feelings for each other but were both very jealous people we never seemed to find that trust completely. so about 4 months ago we broke up due to a massive argument and long distance (i moved about an hour away). 4 months has passed and we have been very much in contact trying to make thia work again. he wouldt agree to being with me again he just said lets try and make it work again by building up the relationaship which is fair enough but i told him and was straight with him by saying id like you to commit to me so i know where i stand in this. We saw each other a few times and each time was amazing and we got on really well then we have arguments when we were apart about silly things like i would gey annoyed because i would convince myself he wouldnt commit to me so he could lead the single life. so the other day i went to a friends party and socialised as you do and made friends with a guy (who i might add was extremely unnatractive). we became 'face book' friends and he wrote on my facebook something casual. So my ex, if i call him that, messages me the next day accusing me of getting with this guy id made friends with and how he never wants to speak to me again. i calmly explained this was not the case to stop looking at the situation in the wrong way, i dont want to be with anyone else etc. he continued to call me a liar and said have fun being single. he hasnt spoken to me since and im not sure what to do. do i message him again (he didnt even have the balls to call me and discuss his fears) or do i just leave it? Its left me feeling like i have done something horribly wrong. i have a big emotional attatchement to my ex and its not as easy as just saying goodbye. please help on what i should do

[Philosoraptor]

It seems that the issues here run deeper than a facebook comment... and if that's truly all it was then you need to find yourself an adult to be in a relationship.

 

I'd gamble he was looking for a reason to say goodbye and relieve the guilt from himself for ending the relationship. Seems like he was able to do just that by writing you off as a cheater.