chevybaby24 Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 I am so depressed and I dont know where to turn so I turn to you! I have been dating this guy for a few years now, and we have a 18 month old son. Before we had him we used to be so passionate and have sex all the time. When I got pregnant we stopped having sex as much cuz he said he was scared to hurt the baby, then after I had the baby he didn't wanna have sex and he still never does. We have sex literally like once a month. What would make a man not want sex anymore? He had his testosterone level checked and its fine, and I mean he has naked pictures of woman and porn all over his phone he just doesn't want to have sex with me and I dont get it, everything else with us is perfect but this, we also never kiss or anything either, when we do have sex its like 2 minutes he gets off and its done, but i mean he loves to cuddle with me he holds my hand he says he loves me and I just don't know what is going on, I feel he isn't attracted to me anymore but he says he is. Our son is 18 months I think that would be enough time to get over the fact that a child came out of me, and when we first got together we had a baby but at 7months (in the womb) she had no heartbeat and I had to give birth to her like normal and everything and he was there and watched that and right after that he still wanted sex he was still very sexual so I dont think its the fact of me giving birth it has to be somthing else but what?
BETTERFLIRT Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 Talking to her about the fact would be a great tool not only to help you know the reason but to give you a better understanding of what to do to fix it once. You must understand that we human being are changable. At any giving moment we can decide to act oppositely to the way we did futherly. My advice would be to check out your physical appearence I mean if you stay attractive to above all your abdomen, men are casual in that way. Do not forget we are in competition which can carry you away from. If you are not paying attention to your competitors you risk to find yourself out. Be more sexy, wear yourself with sexy clothes like mini pants, sexy panties, be more sensual, sexually attractive, confident. Do not give up even do not give replique to him because he is acting like this. Contrarily buy him things you surely know will capture his attention. Be sometime agressive I mean act like you were the man or you are in combat and believe you are in a real combat for which you have to strive yourself to win. Oblige he **** you. If he does not want punish him. I do not know what you will do but be girl. menace to go to someone else if he persists. Do not do it, please. This is called adultary but you need this to make he walks.
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