greenday41 Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 Hi,I am a 17 year old guy.It's been 2 months since my girlfriend broke up with me. Reason:Her sister accidentally came to know of our relationship. So,she says there may be a bleak chance of her sister accepting our relationship after we turn 18,but she says mostly her sister wont allow her. I am devastated. She offered to stay friends with me for the time being. But,I am worried about her sister not accepting our relationship after we turn 18.I made my mistakes. I contacted her too much after breakup and begged her to convince her sis. Obviously it pushed her away. Now,from the past week,I have been following the NC rule and ignoring her texts and calls. She texts me once in 3-4 days and we talk as friends. But,she is the one who texts first. Today,she texted me that she loves me a lot and misses me. I am utterly confused. Now what should I reply to her?
january2011 Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 Continue to ignore and do not engage. Talking as friends is not NC. You've already mentioned in your previous threads about the cultural restrictions on dating, so there is nothing you can do other than to find ways to get over her.
Author greenday41 Posted April 18, 2012 Author Posted April 18, 2012 Umm...thank you for your reply. I am following NC for the past 2 days. Dint reply to her yesterday. How long should I follow NC rule?
january2011 Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 Umm...thank you for your reply. I am following NC for the past 2 days. Dint reply to her yesterday. How long should I follow NC rule? Until you can't remember the last time you thought about her. And thinking about her no longer leads to dramatic emotional shifts. A small twinge of regret is okay. 1
Author greenday41 Posted April 19, 2012 Author Posted April 19, 2012 I have been maintaining NC. Suddenly,out of the blue she texts me and tells me to forget her! What does this mean? I am so confused! :/
january2011 Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Yup - there's no point in reading her texts or responding to her.
Author greenday41 Posted April 19, 2012 Author Posted April 19, 2012 Okay, I'll continue ignoring then. Though I am slightly worried coz we are in the same class and when college starts in a week she is gonna ask me tons of questions.
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