RedIvy Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 I've been dating this guy for just over a month now and when I first met him, I felt giddy and excited and butterflies... all the things you're supposed to feel. No, just in the last couple days, I don't feel that anymore! I feel like I want space and I'm overwhelmed. He's a great guy, but why all of a sudden did I just stop feeling excited about him? Like, I'm actually wondering if I'm into him or not. But just last week, I was crazy about him! So happy! What's the matter with me? Has anyone felt like this? What did you do? I'm so confused and unbelievably frustrated.
starla33 Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 I've been dating this guy for just over a month now and when I first met him, I felt giddy and excited and butterflies... all the things you're supposed to feel. No, just in the last couple days, I don't feel that anymore! I feel like I want space and I'm overwhelmed. He's a great guy, but why all of a sudden did I just stop feeling excited about him? Like, I'm actually wondering if I'm into him or not. But just last week, I was crazy about him! So happy! What's the matter with me? Has anyone felt like this? What did you do? I'm so confused and unbelievably frustrated. I've had that before. Do you think you are afraid of having a relationship with him? It sounds like that is where it is heading so you may be getting freaked out.
Author RedIvy Posted April 17, 2012 Author Posted April 17, 2012 Possibly. He is clearly head over heals for me. I do feel like it's happening so fast. But, I don't want to just end it.
wwwjd Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 So, don't end it. Tell him you want to take everything very slow and GROW into everything naturally. He'll understand. As long as you are exclusive.
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