starla33 Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 sooo i've been going on some great dates recently to the point where I have 2 guys that have both asked me on 2nd dates. Now the first one I really liked and can't wait to see again. 2nd guy I'm not too sure about as hes not my type lookwise...but hes super nice and I think he is more bf material than the first guy. I'm not sure if I can get over his looks though. What do you guys think?
SJC2008 Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 I don't think you can tell if either is bf material after 1 date IMO. What are you looking for? If you can't picture yourself kissing #2 then don't go on a second date. 1
veggirl Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 Yeah don't go out with a guy if you'd have to "get over" his looks. That's not really...promising. lol. What makes the first guy not BF material?
somedude81 Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 sooo i've been going on some great dates recently to the point where I have 2 guys that have both asked me on 2nd dates. Now the first one I really liked and can't wait to see again. 2nd guy I'm not too sure about as hes not my type lookwise...but hes super nice and I think he is more bf material than the first guy. I'm not sure if I can get over his looks though. What do you guys think? So just how ugly is the second guy? 3
mesmerized Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 I would forget the second guy. But I can't start anything without physical attraction.
Author starla33 Posted April 17, 2012 Author Posted April 17, 2012 So just how ugly is the second guy? He isn't ugly at all hes cute...I just usually go for caucasian guys which he is not. So it's kind of new to me...I'm not racist it's just a preference.
Author starla33 Posted April 17, 2012 Author Posted April 17, 2012 I would forget the second guy. But I can't start anything without physical attraction. i'm not sure if it's even that. I think I'm just being stupid. The first guy is more of a douche bag...so you know how that works. Pick that one over the nice guy...which I don't want to do.
somedude81 Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 He isn't ugly at all hes cute...I just usually go for caucasian guys which he is not. So it's kind of new to me...I'm not racist it's just a preference. Oh, you just should have said that he was a different race. Get over his looks, made it seem like he had a few fingers growing on his face.
Author starla33 Posted April 17, 2012 Author Posted April 17, 2012 Oh, you just should have said that he was a different race. Get over his looks, made it seem like he had a few fingers growing on his face. haha yeah sorry. How do you get over that one?
veggirl Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 Okay it all makes more sense now. Well if guy 1 comes off AT ALL as a douche on the first date, then he needs to be nexted. The first date is a person on their best behavior so that is a bit frightening! I would give #2 a try. Maybe you are just anxious as clearly you haven't dated outside of your race before. I'd give it another date for sure in this case.
Author starla33 Posted April 17, 2012 Author Posted April 17, 2012 Okay it all makes more sense now. Well if guy 1 comes off AT ALL as a douche on the first date, then he needs to be nexted. The first date is a person on their best behavior so that is a bit frightening! I would give #2 a try. Maybe you are just anxious as clearly you haven't dated outside of your race before. I'd give it another date for sure in this case. Well I wouldn't say guy 1 is a douche he's just more more alpha male if that makes sense? But yea I will go ahead and go on a 2nd date with guy #2. I have dated outside of my race....but only latin guys so far (a lot of them look caucasian though) 1
mesmerized Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 He isn't ugly at all hes cute...I just usually go for caucasian guys which he is not. So it's kind of new to me...I'm not racist it's just a preference. White guys are overrated. After dating a few, now I'm into darker mixed guys. I see them and just think GORGEOUS! 2
riggs Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 Why did you go out with the non white to begin with? If he is nice at least give it half a chance.
Author starla33 Posted April 17, 2012 Author Posted April 17, 2012 Why did you go out with the non white to begin with? If he is nice at least give it half a chance. he looked like it in his pictures on dating site, he is mixed
Leigh 87 Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 He isn't ugly at all hes cute...I just usually go for caucasian guys which he is not. So it's kind of new to me...I'm not racist it's just a preference. I am also more attracted to caucasions. However, I would still give the other guy a chance. What do you have to lose! it is better to be a less picky person, and at least go on a few dates with each other them. I was not attracted that much to my boyfriend initially, but became super attracted to him because I gave him a CHANCE lol. If your repulsed and really not into his looks, fair enough; but u are not turned off, so you would broaden your horizons by seeing him again.
kaylan Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 haha yeah sorry. How do you get over that one? Either you find him attractive or you dont. Simple
Author starla33 Posted April 17, 2012 Author Posted April 17, 2012 Either you find him attractive or you dont. Simple I don't know if it's that simple though.
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