zanzi Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 he's got a reputation as a creep, I found out today. This guy I had a thing with, which for him was purely sexual, but I fell for him. So, he has a girlfriend and shes meant to be coming from germany soon but she "might not". I used to hate her, heaps. He got mad at me for saying to her he was cheating with me. He said it "hurt him." Well who is being cheated on and hurt really? I don't know how I ever respected myself so little that I got involved with such a jerk, I regret it heaps. I basically told him I was over it, and to stop blaming me for his cheating. So Iv'e been recovering and might start seeing someone else, I went out with yesterday but I dont know if I'm ready to see another person, so I might have to say so. I was so miserable, about the whole stupid thing and just wanted it to be over, he was starting to get quite nasty sometimes. But I miss him. Not like I used to maybe, you cant really love someone who you know doesn't care about you. When I first said I wanted it to be over I was so happy. But the fact that he doesn't care is pretty sore. Maybe it's an ego thing, a rejection thing. I just think it aint fair, because he has never been faithful to her during their relationship- there was another women before me! How can he love her then? How is it fair to me if they stay together, excuse the selfishness, but Iv'e been there for him. How is knowing what he's like with her fair either? I'm not going to say anything else but why does he deserve her, he so doesn't deserve to be with anyone but alone. How do I deal with it if I have to see him or them together? I'm kind of over this town, and am thinking about moving. Not because of him- but because of everything. I'm not happy.
theother Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 Everybody thinks he's a creep because he is a creep. If he's not even capable of staying faithful to the one woman he claims is his true love (!) and even has the audacity to put guilt trips onto you for the fact he cheated on this partner (who'd be better off if someone anonymously kindly warned her off wasting plane fare, by the way ;-)) then he fits the text book description of a 'male chauvinist pig' a.ka. 'a creep'. You're right, maybe you should move to another town and start again somewhere else, without leaving him a forwarding address, but don't ever let yourself fall in love with someone not deserving of your love and who is only after sex because that's a recipe for disaster. Your disaster.
Author zanzi Posted April 18, 2012 Author Posted April 18, 2012 I warned her once. If she wants to spend plane fare on him thats her problem, but If I was her friend I would say DO NOT VISIT HIM. After I told her about his playing around with me, he lied to her saying it was "all lies" and then went back to playing around with me. This girl seems to have no common sense and is about to jump into hot water with a guy who will use her as a float to keep his own head above water before he'll save her from drowning. That thought makes me very sad. Before thigns ended I had heaps of dreams about him. Nightmares. Warnings. So I got out. She could be with him for years, have a baby to him- find some lipstick stains on his shirt ( cliche I know but you know what I mean.) A man like that won't change, cheating on people is beneficial to him and makes him happy. He says to me, he's never been faithful to a women his whole life. (!!!!!) red flag!!!
Author zanzi Posted April 18, 2012 Author Posted April 18, 2012 He also has been looking at young girls of the age of fifteen (!!!!!!!!!!) when out with me. Commenting on very young girls in movies and real life. (eerk errk, alarm bells anyone???)
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