bmunoz23 Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 My girlfriend recently broke up with me after being together for 1 year-plus and about 6 months long distance. She said the distance made it hard and she began to loose feelings for me and that she felt like she was being pulled in a lot of directions. I know she still loves me, she told me numerous time and that she did break up to have a chance to get back together. She said she can still see a future with us and see me with her but right now she needs space and time. I will give that to her because in about a month or so we will probably be hanging out again and seeing each other probably daily. One thing that hurt me and I am confused about is that the night after we broke up she drank more than normal and was drunk and another guy kissed her twice. Her roommate told several people and guys that my girlfriend was single and a guy took advantage of it. I truly believe it happened to be a coincidence and timing that it happened that quickly and that the guy kissed her. She also told me that she cant guarantee it will or will not happen again or that more things will happen. She isn't one to mess around with any guys or do anything to rapid nor a big drinker but she said that a lot of people do things when drunk and such. She said that she wants time to see if she still wants to be in a possibly long distance relationship with me (i was working on transferring closer before the breakup) or to have someone there. So she needs time to herself to figure things out. I will give her that but my question is that regardless of what may happen with when she has "her time" (which i doubt anything severe or real serious will) would it be right to give it another go with her and start fresh. I want to because i know that when together were a great couple and I fell that things would be different the second time around but what do yall think?
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