mephisto Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 Long story short, she dumps me out of the blue (thanks!) and requested me not to contact her ever again,to which I complied. After 4 weeks of NC I find her posting in a forum making the most bizarre and outrageous claims I ever seen in my life. She said I called her names (NEVER!) and that I harmed her physically (would rather slice my wrists than hurting anyone!). Thing is that I am completely shocked at this and cant figure out the reasons behind this and why a person would make such a story. Beyond my reasoning. She knows that I visit that forum and was reading my posts which were not related to her or whatsoever. After her claims she gave my username to the admin and i got banned...??? No questions asked, i just got banned!! The breakup was really nasty (she said some harsh stuff) but I didnt bother her after her request nor did I insult her or whatsoever. Why this claims when I didnt even bother her ? Cause she knew I will read them ? What is she gaining out of it ? Thanks!
Chi townD Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 Chances are people were giving her a hard time about breaking uo with you. No one was on Team Ex girlfriend, so unfortunately for you, she made you out to be a monster and her the victim toget people on her "poor me" side. Still, being banned from a forum without cause sucks. Did you inquire about this with the adminstrator?
Author mephisto Posted April 16, 2012 Author Posted April 16, 2012 hi and thanks for the reply!! she doesnt know anybody in that forum,she just felt like sharing "her story" on that public forum. aside from "poor me" i dont know waht else she was expecting to gain out of it cause i wasnt going to react,not to that. I mean,we left it as it was but never would have suspected that she would have such hard feelings,specially since it was her who dumped me. Got me really thinking why she would do that since she doesnt do a thing without a purpose. To make me feel bad ? I dont cause i didnt do a dam bad thing to her. And why would she say i called her names ? really bizarre!!! Admin banned me due to her being a woman and after her accusations ? No questions asked or whatsoever...ridicolous! Chances are people were giving her a hard time about breaking uo with you. No one was on Team Ex girlfriend, so unfortunately for you, she made you out to be a monster and her the victim toget people on her "poor me" side. Still, being banned from a forum without cause sucks. Did you inquire about this with the adminstrator?
Philosoraptor Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 Some people need to do whatever possible to justify their leaving... even if it's making up stories to get a wave of support on their side. Seems like you did as she asked and she wanted you to beg so she could feel better. Since you didn't she had to bring you down instead of trying to raise herself up.
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