Some females would rather approach than be approached? Is this true?

[roja901]

I don't mean they wanna walk up to a guy and mack on him, but I'm beginning to think that there are quite a few who would rather be the one to "open the lines of communication", so to speak. I think that some might find the traditional "aggressive male" role a little threatening.

 

Me and my crew went to a party, and one o my boyz had the bright idea to wear pajamas. Of course we rocked him all the way there. But almost as soon as we hit the door, 'the shawties was all over him', as he put it. Seemed every five minutes he'd walk by a chick and she'd open her mouth; I heard everything from the mildly witty, "Late sleeper, huh?" to the very vanilla, "Nice clothes." And he's not the greatest lookin guy, in fact, he's quite ugly; an overweight guy with lopsided facial hair.

 

Eventually, he figured the game out and started slingin his own little one-liners.

 

He got laid twice that night.

 

 

Now, again, I'm not saying that females want a role-reversal, but just that maybe some would rather make that first move, but only if you give them an obvious "in".

 

Could there be any truth to this?

 

[Warning: Author of this thread was completely f*cked up at the time of its posting. Please disregard any form of idiocy.]

[Indie]

If you're giving them an "in," then they aren't making the first move.

 

I've never found any that did...in a lot of years.

 

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[CurlyIam]

I like choosing. I like attention. I hate it when a guy thinks he is to do the whole "getting the girl part".

 

I think meeting somewhere in the middle is perfect, as I can make a move and yet be sure he likes me so I don't risk giving signs to a guy who's insensitive to my charm!

 

Let me tell you that I like taking action. Being unpredictable! I have lots of fun seeing guys reactions'. I'm a bit of a flirt, but I try not to overdo it! Oh, I never take this seriously!

[kirkyswife]

I'm a extrovert and I am the owner of a marketing and promotions firm so I typically network during events. So I have no problem approaching a man buying him cocktail or dinner for that matter,