Girls, what would you do?

[Bucky Badger]

If first of all, you had just started (2 days ago) a relationship with a guy, and you weren't very sure about it and are not too sure where you actually stand with the whole thing. then, while at a spring formal, a mutual friend tells you that a great guy friend of yours. (your formal date) really likes you?

 

Suppose you were also completely unaware that he had any feelings for you.

 

How would you feel? What would you do and would you and the friend like to talk at all?

 

THANKS

[CarrieT]

Two days does NOT a relationship make...

 

Date both guys and get to know both of them (no sex!) before deciding. Be honest with both - if asked - that you are multi-dating.

[Radu]

You are in a relationship (i assume you had the talk), it would be cheating ... look up GIGS (grass is greener syndrome).

[january2011]

Why would you start a relationship with a guy that you're not sure of and with whom you don't know where you stand?

 

With regard to the second guy - do you have any feelings for him or is he just a potential escape from this 'relationship' that you're not sure of?

[Imajerk17]

I hate these "hypothetical" questions. Don't be shy, just tell us your situation.

 

I take it you're the "great guy friend"?

 

And is the "great guy friend" different from the guy whom she is in a relationship after 2 days?

[january2011]

Prompted by Imajerk's post, I've looked at your previous threads and it seems that you've been posting about the same girl for over a month now and it's pretty much been the same scenario.

 

In nearly every thread, you've received the same advice telling you to ask her out and every time you've decided not to.

 

Now she's got a boyfriend. I think that you've already spent too much time thinking and not enough time doing and it's most likely that you've missed your chance. I suggest that you follow your friend's advice, which you posted about in your previous thread: wait it out and see how things go.