Desert Rose Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 I'm in an online relationship for almost four months now with a guy, we have never met in person yet. Everything was going great (at least, this is how I felt and what he used to tell me) - he admitted that he's falling in love with me two months after we met, and I was feeling the same way for him. Two weeks ago, we've had this nice chatting; after two days, I have sent him an E-mail to check on him, because he was sick.. he didn't reply, two days later I started to get worried, so I sent him another E-mail to ask if he was okay, but still no reply. At this point, I thought he might be - for whatever reason - was ignoring or avoiding me, I was upset so I sent him an E-mail and told him that I hate to be ignored, and that it's gonna be my last E-mail.. if he wants to end our relationship, he should tell me and never leave me hanging like this. It's been two weeks now without a word from him, I decided to stop sending him E-mails and see what happens. I don't understand his behavior. I don't know if he wants to end our relationship by not replying? or something bad happend to him? I'm angry and worried in the same time. If only I know!! I love him and miss him so much, I don't want to lose him. If someone knows what should I do to keep this relationship alive? Thanks!!
bradc Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 There is barely anything you can do apart from getting on with your own life. He probably got someone else closer to home...or else he's really sick or occupied to even reply to your emails (unlikely) So at this point, stop sending him any more emails and go on a complete NC...keep yourself occupied with other stuff so as to keep your mind diverted. Good luck!
Philosoraptor Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 Maybe he died? More likely though is that he met someone in the flesh and chose to disappear instead of speaking to you like an adult. 1
Author Desert Rose Posted April 16, 2012 Author Posted April 16, 2012 Thank you for your advices, I'm trying to keep myself busy... we will see!
HHC Posted April 17, 2012 Posted April 17, 2012 How do you love someone who you have never met after 2 months? 1
crazylove Posted April 18, 2012 Posted April 18, 2012 Probably not 'love', but you can sometimes muddle infactuation with love, feels very similar at the time:)
2nd2therite Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 I'm in an online relationship for almost four months now with a guy, we have never met in person. I don't understand his behavior. I don't know if he wants to end our relationship by not replying? or something bad happend to him? I'm angry and worried in the same time. If only I know!! One thing for certain is, you've already contacted him multiple times and he's failed to respond. Next step is to fight the urge to make further contact. The ball's in his court.
Ellamay Posted April 24, 2012 Posted April 24, 2012 Im sorry but theres no such thing as an online relationship. You were only believing you were in a relatinship.
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