ameer Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 my gf broke up with me 4 days ago for a long term problems in our 5 years relationship this is the second time we break up .she told me I still can call her anytime. I tried to make her change her mind but no use. I decided to use no contact rule to make her miss me and try to get over break up. but yesterday she called me asking how I'm doing and she doesn't want me to hurt. I told her that I'm all ok and wish she is the same and pretended to be busy and hang up. now why she called? did she miss me or just wanted to know why I stopped calling her and what I was up to? should I continue no contact and for how long? or should I call her back and test the waters? thank you in advance
Philosoraptor Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 It's natural to want to make contact with someone you were with for so long. A breakup with no contact is like severing any other addiction cold turkey. All you can do is what you feel is best for you and stick to it. No contact should not be used to make your ex miss you, but as a way to heal inside.
Chi townD Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 Women have this thing about them. MOST (not all) but, MOST women can't stand the fact that there's a person in the world that might hate them or might think that they are not a good person. She's just calling to see where your head is at and to ease her own guilt of dumping you.
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