bmunoz23 Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 Me and me girlfriend recently broke up long distance after about 6 months of being long distance. She said that the distance got to her and she needs time to figure herself out. There is a guy who kissed her the night we broke up when they were both drunk and i think by coincidence it happened then and so now she is even more confused becasue hes there and I cant be. This seems like something that i went through with her before. Before we dataed she was talkin g to this guy and I wanted her to be mine, so we would hang out and stuff but she wouldnt let go of him and didnt know what she wanted. It seemed about the same thing that is going on, then something happened between them and she just got tired of him and decided that I indeed was the better option. I understand it could be the oppposite, I could be the guy that she got tired of but we never had any serious problems just small issues that came up again and again. but i feel that with the distance it made it alot easier to tell me she needed time and needed to figure herself out because i know, im very positiev, that if i were there and could be with her this wouldnt have happened. I also think her roommate and friends had something to do with it, they probably told her about these guys who talked about her and so fourth so since I couldnt be there it was easy for her to try this out. like i said, I really hope that we get back together. We have talked about it and said that if we do get back together it would be a fresh start. I have thought about my problems and am working on them with family support and i know this will help her figure her issues out as well. She says she still loves me and that the main reason she did this was to have that possibility there. I know that when together, our attraction and feelings are in tip top shape. She says she can see us getting back together and that she can picture a future with me but that shes just going through a rough time and needs to figure herslf out. Anyone who was gone through this please help, maybe a girls perspective and if we were to get back together would it work out?
Author bmunoz23 Posted April 16, 2012 Author Posted April 16, 2012 oh and we dated for a year and some months about, just about 5 of them have been while in college apart from eachother
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