foreverAClone Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 What should I do with her on our second date? Want to make it special. Situation description Briefly me: age 20, no previous experience with women Briefly her: age 20, had a previous boyfriend, treated her badly towards the end Common attributes: in the same course in uni, passionate about our subject Assumptions: I believe she likes me (i found a large list on the internet of things to check and 70% matched, did the really bad joke-check if she laughs -thing etc.), I feel she wants a boyfriend who would get her out of the stressful school routine. Previous encounters: school labs (following me around, chatting and joking a lot, complimented me), somewhat of a date in her home city (only chatted) Date moment: right before exams; has to be short, nice and relaxing. Objectives: break touch barrier and kiss - want to clearly outline my position. I feel that prolonging it more wastes both of our time. If she refuses, well, then that's that. ------------------------------- My Ideas I thought movie date is too ordinary. I cannot find a good scenario through which to break the touch barrier. Same for any restaurant date. I think studying together is not an option - I want to get her mind off the exams. Does the following variant seem awkward: I used to do classical dancing in highschool - I am not very good, but I enjoy doing it; I was thinking of inviting her to a dance practice with me. The problem is there is no dance club in which I am engaged right now, it could be me and her in some room at uni (this already sounds awkward as hell). I think I can sound pretty confident and convincing when proposing this so that she would actually accept (I could offer justifications such as that it's been a long time and I wan to practice a bit and teach her smth new). However, given the emotional implications I cannot judge how bad of an idea this is. I would greatly appreciate hearing any other ideas. Thank you for your help. foreverAClone
january2011 Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 Have you checked the meetup website or googling to see if there is a local venue or event near you that has dancing as a social activity?
garycoleman Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 I think people put too much pressure on accomplishing the 1st kiss by the 2nd date. People act like if you don't kiss a girl by the 2nd date she no longer be interested. It took me like 10 dates and 6 weeks to give my current g/f our 1st kiss. A couple of days later we were making out with tongue and everything. We were all touchy-feely with each other for weeks before our 1st kiss.
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