dsw31 Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 It's been 14 days since my ex last texted me.I didn't respond. This has been the saddest time in my whole life.I miss him so bad.I keep wondering what he's up to.If he regrets this break up & if he has someone else.I'm sure everyone is going to say that it doesn't matter but,it matters to me.I know this is selfish but,I wish he was miserable too. I know those thoughts can't be helping me but, I can't help it.I was up sporradicaly throughout the night & the first thing I do is look at my phone.Every time it's such a huge dissapointment when I see that he hasn't reached out.I guess he's just respecting the fact that I told him not to contact me anymore,since he wanted this breakup.But,part of me keeps thinking-how can he be happy without me?I am miserable without him.I know everyone is going to say,it gets better,it's for the best,and all that other stuff but,honestly...I don't know how long I can keep feeling like this.I'm on a path to destruction.
Frank13 Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 What do you hope to achieve by breaking NC? If you told him not to contact you, I am sure he is just respecting that. Do you still have hope of getting back together? The time I realized nothing matters is when I lost all hope for reconciliation. That's when you think of breaking NC and ask yourself "what for"? 1
Author dsw31 Posted April 16, 2012 Author Posted April 16, 2012 What do you hope to achieve by breaking NC? If you told him not to contact you, I am sure he is just respecting that. Do you still have hope of getting back together? The time I realized nothing matters is when I lost all hope for reconciliation. That's when you think of breaking NC and ask yourself "what for"? Thanks Frank13, That actually helped me ...a little. I guess I hope that by breaking NC,he will realize that I am the one for him & yes-for reconcilliation.I think you are right though-the only way to get over an ex is when you lose all hope for reconcilliation.I think my ex lost that hope a while ago so,I'm thinking it's a lost cause.It really sucks cause I was so happy when we were together but,I can't make him feel that way.I hope I can overcome this soon. Thanks again for your response
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