macardent Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 My gf of 7 months broke up with me. A week before that I brokeup with her for only 3 minutes and she called I appologized and asked her to come back. She did but then left me. She started being distant 2 weeks before that I think there is someone else involved when I asked her she said NO and went in details how she is busy with work and sick mom. She brokeup with me saying she loves her self more. I called her a slut and brought in her past. I know I didn't do the right thing and I appologized like crazy for two weeks. She said she hates me as a person and started insulting me. And when I said I wana come back in 2 years and marry you if u are available she said she doesn't wana give me false hopes. And that I should stop begging her for ego boost. She also said dude don't u get the message? Stop calling me. I don't know what to do meh.. I miss her like crazy.. Please any help? What should I do? Its been 5 days I didn't contact her. I asked on this forum before check out that she wants to hurt my ego. Helpp!!
TaraMaiden Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 Ok, let me break this to you gently: IT'S OVER - !! Leave her alone, don't contact her and don't even think of trying to get her back! As for her waiting around for you, for 2 years - really, what are the chances of that happening?? notch this one up to experience, don't call people names, don't insult them, and don't act like such a childish jerk. Move on, let her live her life, improve yours, and try to be more mature. Women don't want to go out with petulant kids, they want to go out with mature sensible men. So take it as read - you need to work on yourself, and move on. 1
AltoidsCan Posted April 16, 2012 Posted April 16, 2012 I think we are in the same position. You will most likely going to get the answer to move on. Its strange how our girl hurted us yet we miss them. Let her go and go NC. If you guys were meant to be, she will come back to you. 1
Author macardent Posted April 16, 2012 Author Posted April 16, 2012 Thanks for your reply. I treated her with all the respect in the world throughout the relationship she brokeup with me for some other reason. I told her I didn't mean it. I am somewhat bipolar she figured it out and she told me that I am. So she knows that. I know what I did was wrong. I am already hurt. I am not looking for bashing here- she did enough of that. I want her back because I am guilty about what I did. Please help me with how I can win her back. I know there is still a chance if there wasn't she would just hangup on me.
Author macardent Posted April 16, 2012 Author Posted April 16, 2012 I think we are in the same position. You will most likely going to get the answer to move on. Its strange how our girl hurted us yet we miss them. Let her go and go NC. If you guys were meant to be, she will come back to you. I know man most of the women here seem to hate us for doing what we did, but seriously if u think about it. You only hurt people u love that because it hurts when they hurt us you think if u hurt them back u won't look weak and they might come back but they don't. I have hope that she will come back. I am going NC. Some people said that she will call u!
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